#2986 What the hell are you people doing asking advice from half baked college kids? These kids have no idea how to deal with the realities of life besides brushing them under the carpet. These people are good for two things and two things only, having sex and eating food. If you want advice ask someone who has experienced the ups and downs of life first hand, and leave the toilet jokes to these kids.

#2985 It's a sad thing how at 21 a guy can still be a virgin. Like you need to get that shit handled ASAP! It can only get worst with time and years. Take it from a guy who was a virgin until he was 20 years old. Shit fucked with me for dayssssss.

#2984 I know in this world there's plenty to be sad about but there are also a million reasons to be happy. There ARE good people out there. To everyone who posts about sadness or suicice on here: please hold on, you'll find your reasons to be happy!

#2983 Lets be honest guys, majority of girls are superficial. Girls care about looks, social status, who your friends are, and how cool you are. Yes Yes Yes they do. Well at least most attractive/hot girls, yeah they deff care about shit like that. Not so attractive girls maybe not. I know most of you girls are getting pissed right now like that's so not true, I am a girl and don't care about that. Good for you, but remember I'm talking about a MAJORITY of girls not a small minority of girls.

Yeah some girls keep it "real" and don't put too much importance on that stuff, but they keep it "real" to a certain extent. You don't have to be super hot, but you at least have to be decent looking. You don't have to be the coolest guy ever but you can't be a complete loser with no friends. You see this play out in college right in front of you all the time, really hot girls wanna hook up with cool guys. Never have I heard a girl tell me she wants to hook up with a loser, but once in awhile you do see a guy dating a girl way out of his league.

I always give a guy like that serious props, and more power to him. All it means is that the girl doesn't care so much about looks and all that other shit (She's part of the small minority of chicks). But the guy isn't a complete loser right?? Plus it's not something you see all the time, It's like an anomaly it just happens once in awhile, it's not the norm. Most guys will encounter the majority of girls and they'll call them superficial, but I say fuck it. It is what it is, hot girls wanna date cool guys simply because the girl knows she's hot and she knows her value in the eyes of men so she wants the best she can get, why go for less.

#2982 I'm the one who ranted #2975:

To the person suggesting a therapist: I do see one. :) She also teaches me breathing techniques and general meditation. She has helped immensely in helping me figure myself out. I have no doubt she'll help me get far. I met with several therapists and chose her; I encourage anyone coping with mental illness to try to find a (GOOD) therapist as well!

But also do realize that just because you find the right therapist means your life should be fixed in an instant. I'm on my 6th month with her focusing very hard on staying calmer and I still have a long way to go; maybe years.

#2981 To #2975,
I feel you. I understand you, and I know where you are coming from because I know the pain of mental illness. It truly sucks that no one without a mental illness can actually understand us. I have Bipolar and Anxiety disorders. I was in a hospital for being suicidal. People made fun of it in middle and high school for those reasons.

I kept thinking I was wrong, that my behavior and emotions were always my fault. Sometimes it was. Other times I couldn't help it. I still struggle everyday.

But I am a lucky person. I had insurance, I can afford meds. If I did not I would not have been treated, I would be dead now.

So I can really see where you are coming from, #2975.

And to anyone who dismisses a mental illness as a behavior problem, you are the one with the issue.

Don't discriminate the sickness just because it is invisible!! The disability is real, the pain is tough.

And to #2975, good luck!! You can make this work!

#2980 I don't get how people do the whole taking girls on a date thing. Like I would never take a girl on a date unless we were dating. That's how you get used. Plus I feel like there are better ways to get to know someone other than buying them shit and awkwardly talking and trying to flirt hoping for that second date.

#2979 Aww poor grehg getting hit on by gay guys. We hooked up like 2-3 times(I'm a girl obviously) in the past...trust me boys, he is a sexual master and doesn't need to play with guys. Tbh I nearly came 8 times. No exaggeration.