#5977 Is my relationship normal? Girlfriend and I get into an argument, and maybe it's both of our fault or it's her fault. It ends up becoming my fault entirely and I see myself waiting for her anger to boil over.

Sometimes she does something bad, and I try to cheer her up. She hates on me for not cheering her up the "right way" and "not helping," even though I really tried to. Sometimes I just miss the target, but you can't blame me for trying. I don't say anything bad that's for sure.

But then she is furious with me. She shouts a bit then ignores me for a bit. I apologize for "not helping enough," and she says "alright I'll forgive you a bit, but not entirely" or something like that.

Do people always deal with this "it's always the guy's fault" shit? I've been with this girl for more than a year so don't just tell me to break it off, but honestly, I don't think that "it's always the guy's fault" thing is something that happens with reasonable couples...

#5976 I just wanna use your love tonight

#5975 It truly does kill me how non social I am. So many people I want to meet, so many beautiful women I want to talk to, but I either am too terrified of their response or lack the self confidence to believe in myself

#5974 I tried to get a former friend expelled and my ex bf arrested by lying to the police and the university, because I couldn't stand being around someone who knew I how messed up I really am.

#5973 I have nothing against Greek life. In fact, I was very close to joining myself and I have many good friends in it (some that I knew before their affiliation and others far after.) I think fraternities and sororities seem like a great time, they provide amazing opportunities and a level of comradery that's difficult to find in every day life. Many negative stereotypes are either simply untrue or they're exaggerated, but then there are also some that are prevalent...and they bother me.

What I'm speaking of, is the sense of superiority. I'm not even going to address guys, for the purpose of this post I'm talking strictly females. Now, this is a touchy subject and it's going to generate a whole lot of hate no matter how I phrase it, but I'll attempt to choose my words wisely regardless. Basically, as a god damn independent, I feel like I have no shot with the majority of sorority girls I meet. There's going to be the inevitable comments suggesting that the problem might just be me or my game, or the girls simply aren't interested. I'm not going to describe myself or list off my sexual conquests because it won't do any good, I don't have shit to prove to anyone...especially anonymously. I can also confidently say that I've been rejected plenty of times, and I know when a girl isn't interested in me. But there's a difference between not being interested and not even giving someone a thought. With a lot of sorority girls, it's as if I'm not even a viable option because I'm not in Greek life.

First time meeting someone it's the same questions, we're all guilty of it. In high school it was "Do you play any sports?" In college, 8 times out of 10 I'm greeted with "Are you in a frat?" within minutes. "No." And you can tell just by the look on their face, the light leaving the eyes and the excitement dying...it's game over, right there. Then there's all the girls I fucked with (in every sense of the word; both sexually and approving of them/being friends with them) heavy...until they joined a sorority, when it's as if they became too good for me or their other friends.

Look...I understand asking the question. It's a big part of your life, it's only natural that you'd want to find someone that has the same interests/things in common. I also understand that Greek life is not only extremely time consuming, but it opens doors to new people and activities. So it's not as if I'm looking at every action taken or listening to every word uttered negatively, I REALLY do like a lot of people in Greek life and many of the principles/ideas that the organizations stand for (not to mention the awesome events.) But, whether you see it or not, and whether you admit it or not, a lot of these girls seem to have a superiority complex. It's not going to change, people like me will adapt and life will go on...but I don't like it. Just like I don't automatically pass judgement on someone in a fraternity/sorority, no matter how flamboyant they are about it, I don't think they should automatically look down on us independents. There are definitely offenders on both sides, whether it's a conscious decision or not, but I really wish it would end.

#5972 Building security on campus is terrible

#5971 At #5966, people that defend overly sexual girls are called real feminists... People that slander overly sexual guys are fake feminists and assholes

#5970 Please stop posting shit about Sofloantonio... I hadn't heard about him until I saw all the complaint posts. I get that he's probably really fucking annoying but all y'all posting about him on this site just gives him more promotion. We get it, his posts suck. Report him and move on, pleaaaase.