#6645 There's something weird happening with my libido.
Like, if I hit it off with a hot guy I'm totally down to go home with him. But then, when we're hooking up, usually in the beginning when we're starting out and making out, I just get really bored. Like, honestly, I'll be thinking about what homework I have to do the next day or whether I picked up my paycheck from work and just be totally detached. They never notice, but I've just very apathetic and lose my interest. At this point, I usually send them home with a BJ because I feel bad for leading them on and then sending them home with blue balls. And this happens with every guy, regardless of how crazy bangable they are. I don't even think this has anything to being emotionally involved because it happened with the last guy I dated, too. He was very cute but I would eventually just get bored after like 5 or 10 minutes. I've been this way as long as I can remember.
Anyone know what's wrong with me? Or why this happens? Is anyone else feeling this sexual apathy?

#6644 Does the friend zone exist for guys?
It exists for me (I'm a girl) and it is a one-way trip. But I've never been "just friends" with any guy I've met in college. Even when I've wanted to, eventually they've all made a move on me, and gotten denied. Then, I guess, it was too awkward for them to continue our friendship and we would drift apart.
All my guys friends are my friends from high school. We've known each other for ~7 years and, more importantly, they knew me back when I was overweight and unattractive and I think on some level they still think of me like that. So they're never going to be more than friends to me and I'm pretty sure it runs the other way, too.
In any case, the guy I like introduced me to some people as his friend. First of all, we have not hung out enough to be friends. But obviously, "friend" is a very generic term and doesn't necessarily mean he friend-zoned me.
But, him introducing me like sort of stepped up our relationship. Ya know what I mean? I mean, somehow I went from being this girl he knew to being his friend. Is the friend zone fluid for guys? Is it something that changes if there's an opportunity for sex? Or is he a lost cause now?

#6643 Could somebody please explain the pervasive expectancy culture that runs rampant at UMD? For example, deciding not to use a crosswalk to cross a busy street and giving shade looks to cars that are forced to stop for you? Just an observation.

#6642 To #6616, having a family that's not so well off isn't always a good thing. I come from a household where college is getting harder and harder to think about because my parents guilt me into everything. I always get the "you could bankrupt us by fucking up," when I try my hardest. I have a documented and diagnosed learning condition where it literally hurts me academically. My parents think I'm stupid and they CONSTANTLY harass me about changing my major because they think I'm too much of a fucking screw up and they never think I will amount to anything. I spend many nights thinking what would happen if I just committed suicide and left them? I wonder if drinking a drink or two could numb the pain. My dad NEVER said I love you and he laid a blow of "you make me sad, more than when your brother died." I wish, for a moment, I could have money and parents that weren't present all the time because it's so hard too. I wish I could talk to you and be your friend because I want someone to understand the opposite end. I want someone who understands the shittiness that we have to put up with; however I don't want to reveal myself on here but maybe one day I can call you a friend.

#6641 Harry S is basically gorgeous inside and out. Harry, you're super amazing and kind and smart and stuff, but then it's like DAMN congrats on the face... can't be the only one who hopes you're single & into girls!

#6640 I hate how as soon as someone confesses something controversial that isn't "PC", all the idiots begin blasting the confessing person. These idiots preach about accepting people of different races, opinions, and types, but as soon as they disagree with something, they will attack the person and not the argument.

#6639 For my college application, I put my race down as black because I knew as a white guy my admissions profile wasn't good enough to get in.

#6638 I am actually extremely grateful for affirmative action. All the people who shouldn't have made it to UMD have worse grades which makes it much easier to get a higher GPA. Thank god for AA!