Saturday, 03 May 2014 08:51 PM
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#7141 I went to the gym during all of this knoxapalooza business. I'm not gonna lie, it felt 1000 times sexier kicking my glutea and working out my thighs instead of getting wasted.
Saturday, 03 May 2014 08:45 PM
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#7140 I’m a senior just about to graduate, 22 years old and I've never had a girlfriend. I haven’t even been kissed since I was in high school. I spent about 3 years ignoring girls on campus and dedicating myself to a girl from my hometown, but things didn't work, and now I'm in a strange place (admittedly my fault for letting things drag on with her). I know I'm not looking in the wrong places, because I don't go after girls at parties or bars, but I feel like I never get a chance at something serious. Any girl I’ve actually approached gave off signals that she was only interested in hooking up or partying.
I'm a decently good looking guy, and I work out hard to keep my body attractive, but I have 0 confidence at this point. I'm vulnerable after what happened with the last girl (along with my more experiences), and now I get severe anxiety when even thinking of approaching someone. I'm loyal, compassionate, and I know how to communicate and be assertive, but I just can't bring myself to move forward. I’m looking for a serious partnership, so I understand college isn’t the ideal place for that in some ways, but does anyone have any advice for how I can move past this phase? It's caused me a great deal of depression and stress, and I'm afraid it will take me a while to grow out of.
Saturday, 03 May 2014 08:23 PM
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#7139 This is for kids in HIST201-you'll know which class I'm talking about if you're in it. I know that we get frustrated at and make fun of the very loud kid who always comes in after class is done, but I think we need to have some understanding here. From what I've observed, he seems to have some sort of mental disability and I don't think he's able to control some of the things he does, like the volume of his voice. Actually, I stayed a little after one day and saw that he was very sincere in apologizing to our professor. He's always talking to his parents on his phone in a way that is so touching and innocent. I really don't think he's a bad person and deserves what we throw at him. I'm just as guilty for being mad at him because of his behavior. I'm just asking for us to have some understanding and patience.
Saturday, 03 May 2014 06:37 PM
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#7138 I consider myself a decently attractive female. But I'm so lonely right now I could cry...
Saturday, 03 May 2014 06:15 PM
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#7137 In highschool I was one of the brainiacs. Here I'm a dumbshit.
Saturday, 03 May 2014 05:42 PM
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#7136 Coming into the realization that I have zero prospects with any women here at CP at the close of my sophomore year. Hooray for loneliness
Saturday, 03 May 2014 03:36 PM
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#7135 Do you remember me? Do you remember staring into my eyes and saying "i love you" through the tears because i was there for you during your darkest hours? Do you remember jumping into my open arms and hugging me with joy when you saw me after a month spent apart? Do you remember me making love, not to you, but *with* you? Do you remember the adventures and the laughs we shared? Do you remember kissing me in the rain?
I know you must be slowly forgetting me as you spend more and more time with him, but I cannot conceptualize it. Why don't you remember me??
Someday I will die alone and your name will be "rosebud" on my lips....by then you will have forgotten that I ever existed.
Saturday, 03 May 2014 02:04 PM
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#7134 So I hooked up with guy and he slept over. And the whole night, he refused to spoon with me. I've been in bed with guys before and I feel like over the course of the night, it's natural for bodies to sort of meld into each other. Spooning is comfortable. It can be intimate, but it doesn't have to be. But it was like, he was deliberately, consciously trying not to spoon with me. He was lying there with his arms against his sides and it looked so uncomfortable. I didn't ask him to spoon, but really, why?