#7582 Same person as
#7507, let me elaborate on one point of my previous venting.
CONFIDENCE IS NOT PERSISTENCE. I see a fuck-ton of guys that think being clingy and constantly asking a girl out is the same thing as being confident. It's not. It's seen as being a tool.
Confidence is knowing how to handle yourself. It's knowing how to listen to a girl, how to make her laugh, how to make her smile and actually enjoy your company. Confidence is being sure of what you're doing, but being willing to listen and adjust. There's a lot that goes into confidence, but it really comes down to this:
Confidence is feeling good enough about yourself to be able to make the girl feel good about herself.
P.S. This isn't restricted to guy -> girl interactions, also works for girl -> guy, guy -> guy, girl -> girl, emu -> dinosaur. BUT NOT DINOSAUR -> EMU. THAT SHIT DON'T WORK.