#8696 I always thought Michael M from the chem frat was the cutest lil nugget. He's so nice too! And smart. Ok I'm officially creepy, g-bye.

#8695 To #8669, read this. Chuck Klosterman knows how you feel. "Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs" is one of the best books I've ever read. http://www.powells.com/biblio?show=TRADE%20PAPER:USED:9780743236010:7.50&page=excerpt

#8694 do you ever make it through the day just fine, and at night feel a pit in your stomach when you finally realize that your relationship is over?

#8693 On the same topic as #8653, about guy stalking girl and restraining order... I was recently on the other end of a restraining order for stalking and harassing. I believe I was wrongly accused, and I'm just looking for people's opinion on my situation since it made me really depressed to think that the reality--me being perceived as a stalker--conflicted with my own perception of myself. This girl had said the same things, that she never tried to lead me on and she was never interested in dating. She lied in court saying I have been harassing and stalking her for the past 6 months. But just in those past 6 months, we've went out to many dinners and movies, had long phone conversations, and even took a lakeside stroll together. There were thousands of text messages between us that filled up over 230 pages that my lawyer had printed out, and that was as thick as an encyclopedia. Even before 6 months, we had "gone out" on many occasions, went to the county fair, hung out in the woods in her hammock, and she had even introduced me to her mom over dinner. We worked in the same place and she used that as "evidence" that I showed up to her work place. Because of this, all of our mutual friends and coworkers abandoned me, and some even testified against me. I was suspended and later forced to resign, and obviously I didn't do very well with my semester. She said I had misinterpreted all the times we hung out. I did try to argue over text how she led me on, and she used that in court as how "I had taken every moment we hung out as signs that she must've liked me." I have been so conflicted and depressed, and I wondered if I was so disillusioned that I really had misinterpreted everything. Did I really deserve this? This has undoubtedly ruined my reputation, and my lawyer explained to me that I can't sue her for defamation and win unless there are monetary damages or if I was denied of a future job/position as a result of this court record. I just feel like, as the guy, it's a lose-lose situation and you just can't win.
And to those of my ex "friends" who will recognize this confession, go fuck yourselves

#8692 I wonder...do girls watch porn "usually" as guys does, or do they just have other things or taste that they enjoy? By the way, i understand that not every guy watches porn

#8691 Ive grown up all around guys all my life so naturally i feel more comfortable around guys....I ALWAYS MAKE IT CLEAR that i am notttttt looking for any kind of relationship besides friendship and everything is always cool...at first!! and then BAMMM i get the ol' "im starting to have feelings for you" FUCKKKKKKKK NOOO!!! I dont wanttt you to have feeelings for me!! I just want you to be my friend!! This always happens and I dont understand why i cant be bestfriends with a guy without them getting too attached and ruining our beautiful friendship!! Im over this!! Every fucckkkkkking time!! I really dont mean to hurt anyone but like i cant stay friends with someone who has feelings for me because as much as i try i can see hurt in their eyes and it kills me to see my *now EX* bestfriends like that.... is being strictly friends too much to ask for?! I promiseeee im not a bitch but i just never want anything more then a friendship and then i end up loosing close friends for no reason!! I hate that people have romantic feelings :(

#8690 I'm a volunteer victim advocate at the department of sexual assault and domestic violence, and i also happen to be one of the only two male advocate there. However, it is the lack of consistency and one-sided argument when it comes to the topic of feminism by many feminist (that I've encountered), and feminist on here, such as Nicole, that causes me to -momentarily- be ashamed to call myself a feminist. example: comments to confessions #8653, more importantly #8648

#8689 So you know when you shave your butt hole after a few days it gets itchy beyond words?! Well I found the solution at work. Roll toilet paper in a ball and put in between your cheeks and whenever it itches, just move around!