Thursday, 31 October 2013 02:00 PM
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My number is somewhere around 25-30. I have never been pregnant & never had an STD. I've had an orgasm nearly every time and sometimes more than one or two. I am also a straight male.
Thursday, 31 October 2013 01:41 PM
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I am depressed. Actually depressed. But, nobody knows it. People have such skewed views on depression. They say it's a choice, depressed people are dramatic, they'll get over it, etc. So I keep it a secret. When I'm around my friends I smile and joke but inside I'm always hurting. I don't want people to laugh at me or pity me. I just want someone to talk to.
Thursday, 31 October 2013 11:46 AM
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The other day was my birthday and my mom got me a pink easy bake oven.. I don't think i've been this happy since cabbage patch kids were invented. I'm a 20 year old guy by the way. LEMME COOK FER YEW
Thursday, 31 October 2013 11:14 AM
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All my professors are offering extra credit for wearing costumes to class today. So I am drunk, I have a backpack full of candy, and I am ready to prove to 8 year old kids everywhere that the Halloween fun doesn't have to end as you get older. Life is too short to sit sneering at the people who want to have a little fun today.
Thursday, 31 October 2013 10:34 AM
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I'm attractive, normal, really nice and smart. I have girl-friends but mainly from home.... i was praying college would be a time to meet new ones. But not a lot of girls like me just reach out to new girls (well unless we'r all drunk) don't know what to do. But starting to feel like transferring. My friends from other universities that have all visited say its so different at other colleges.
Thursday, 31 October 2013 10:32 AM
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One of my friends has chlamydia and i don't know what to do. She is getting treated but i saw the Australian guy the other day and i don't thnk he is because i keep hearing of more and more freshman girls getting it, and he has a this wall of girls he's fucked, and its INSANE......... I'm not friends with him so i can't confront him... and i can't ask her to revile who he is....
Thursday, 31 October 2013 09:41 AM
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Hey guys, I am the person that made the comment about women making confessions about sleeping around. I saw that there was a lot comments on the status, and I wanted to address some.
Well, really the core of this issue is the distinction between love and sex. When you choose many sexual partners, you start to lose value for them. Sex is no longer special, its just a pleasureful act. There is nothing wrong with being a slut, just realize that its a choice you made. You decided that you want to sleep with everyone, as opposed to just one person. That was a decision YOU made. As far as slut shaming goes, just be aware that a lot of people will judge you for it. So preaching the fact that slut shaming is wrong is just as detrimental as preaching being a slut is wrong.
I personally think that people should be monogamous, but you by no means have to live that way. Just realize that when you have been with a lot of people, and want to settle down.... it will be hard for you. When you have found your soul mate, but fucked 20 other dudes to get there.... You will love him less if at all. You wont think the sex between you is special, it will just be an act. As one reader was saying, its very hard for women to distinguish between love and sex. That is why when women first start having sex, its very emotional. They get very attached. That attachment fades with partners.
When a woman is a slut, its normally because she has little self worth. She thinks there is no value in her sex anyway, so she should give it up easy. Of course, this isnt everyone, but most. Self respect or self worth does decrease with the number of partners you have. The worth of your sex decreases, because its just a pleasurable act.... its not love.
Maybe having value for 'love-making' is outdated. Maybe being monogamous goes against human nature... but there are some of us that see the benefits of it still. Not everyone is happier with tons of sex. Some people want love and commit... over the number of people they have been with. A respectful and trustworthy relationship can be indescribably filling, and bring a life time of happiness.
Thursday, 31 October 2013 09:29 AM
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It still surprises me how many people are not proficient at the English language yet. I understand colloquial language is part of a society, but people need to expand their vocabulary or at the very least, use correct grammar. People still do not know the differences between homophones (primarily "your and you're, or their, they're, and there). After countless corrections from Grammar Nazis on the internet, one would think people would have learned and corrected themselves.