#1170 You know what really grind my gears? Women... women who are 18, 19, early twenties, who date men in their late 30s to early 40s. Women who say that these men are so much more mature, so much more established and know exactly what they want. As a young man (23), I feel like it is a slap in the face, a major insult. Mature... really? If a 40 year old man has to resort to dating an 18/19/20 year old, he isn't mature. In my opinion, a grown man has no business dating a woman that young. So much more established? As young men, meeting women in college is just a perk. Many of us here to get good jobs after school and establish ourselves in the world. Not all of us young men are going to be millionaires, but we are in college because we are ambitious enough to better ourselves. Older men know exactly what they want? Again, if they knew what they wanted, they wouldn't be dating you. Have you ever asked yourself why a man of that age isn't dating women his age? Why he would choose a college kid over professional woman? Maybe this older guy is just trying to live out his Hugh Hefner or Doug Hutchinson (look him up) fantasy. Women... guys around your age have the potential to become these mature, established and awesome men, BUT you have to be willing to give him the chance he deserves. This is what grinds my gears.

#1169 I have Borderline Personality Disorder. And it has ultimately nearly ruined my life. My family kicked me out of my house because I'm too "unstable." I crash with friends here and there, and they don't want me there anyways so most often I wonder the streets. That part I don't mind. The solitude is relaxing. Though at times it's also agonizingly painful, knowing that I could just step in front of the next oncoming car and nobody would even know, for days.. Every night at the same time I get super depressed, think of ways to kill myself, instead settle of decorating my skin with self inflicted gashes and burns. My relationship with my boyfriend of a year or so is spiraling downward. As a part of BPD, I switch from loving him unconditionally to hating him with every fiber of my being. And currently we are in a long distance type thing, and my BPD makes it so that if he's not physically here, he's not here at all. I almost "forgot him." It's not that I don't love him, idk what it is... It's exhausting for him. That, and almost every night he has to talk me out of suicide, that of which I probably wouldn't even commit. I just like knowing he cares enough to talk me out of it. But lately he's stopped. He just threatens to call the cops. I almost want him to. I think about attempting suicide (enough to hurt but not kill me) so I can go back to the mental ward and get back on meds and have free therapy and start over again. But I know a few months after I get out I'll be back here again, suicidal, depressed, angry, and hateful. I internalize my feelings, which are stronger than the average person's (key point of BPD, feelings come on THOUSANDS time stronger than normal, whether good or bad). That manic high won't last. It'll be followed by a hard fall towards rock bottom. Maybe I should fake an attempt, get into the hospital, get my meds, and show my boyfriend that he CAN lose me. If I'm even worth losing? OR just continue adding fresh scars to my skin until one day I go too far or get over this fucking Hell. Whichever comes first..

#995 Unless you are Frank Sinatra (1 or 2), have a suit to match or want to create a "no-girl zone" around yourself, PLEASE STOP WEARING FEDORAS.

#1167 I think that biking around campus during the day during weekdays should be freaking banned. Seriously. Everytime I am walking around campus when class gets out, I always see a biker close to hitting somebody or actually hittimg someone. Every semester, I always witness someone getting hit by a bike, because the bikers speed down the sidewalk and campus when it is busy.

#994 DR pepper and frosted flakes are fucking amazing.

#1166 Anyone knows who is the tall, thin guy with light brown hair (blondish I would say) that was wearing a black suit, had his hair in a pony tail, and smell delicious on Wooten Hall, Tuesday October 1st. I have seen him many times and I just think he is cute, but I don't know how to approach him. I am Mexican and guys are different over there

#1165 The guy always riding down avanue C, on the honda shadow

You always look so sad and lonely, I heard you talking at chick-fil-a

You are not unattractive, in fact you are handsome

And you are Black and Japanese

Keep your head up, next time you wear the panda suit I'm gonna hug you :*
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#1164 I am now seeking a fellow lost soul to swim with in a fishbowl, year after year. If you get the reference, you've already won my heart.