#1584 In response to
#1342I have been sexually assaulted three times. Why don't we go over the things I was wearing when those happened?
The first time I was assaulted, I was wearing a baggy t shirt and baggy jeans. I was drunk, but I continuously told him (a guy I had just met at the party, who's name I don't even know) to stop. He didn't until someone came in the room. Apparently, he thought because I kissed him I wanted to have sex with him. He had never seen me in anything other than the clothes I was wearing that night, which I will remind you was a baggy t shirt and baggy jeans.
The second time, I was wearing skinny jeans (they were a little tight, but not skin tight) and a t shirt (wasn't baggy, but wasn't tight). There was no cleavage and it was not see through. Like the first guy, I told him to stop more than once but unfortunately, there was no one there to stop him. I had chilled with that guy a few times before, and I never wore any short shorts or see through shirts with massive cleavage around him. I once wore a baby doll tank top around him but I put a sweater over it.
The last time was when I was on vacation with my family. I did not wear any inappropriately short shorts. I actually only wore jeans except when I was sleeping or swimming. I was in my bikini a lot because we were at a lake, and I was not the only girl wearing a bikini. It wasn't a string bikini, and it definitely was not the most revealing one compared to what was worn by the other girls there. And I only wore a bikini when we were swimming. Otherwise, I put my clothes on. The night I was assaulted, I was wearing a t shirt (which I will admit was tight, but not see through) and skinny jeans (again, they were tight, but not skin tight). I was passed out drunk (many of my family members were getting drunk throughout the week and I wasn't the only one who passed out) and he stopped because I woke up. And it's not like I ever in my entire life wore revealing clothes around my family besides a bikini or when I was a child in a diaper. And you'd think that a girl could wear a fucking bathing suit around her family without worrying about a family member assaulting her.
Sometimes, I do wear skimpy clothes. But those times, I wasn't. And those guys Had not seen me in skimpy clothes. And let me point out I rarely go out in public in anything other than jeans.