#6349 The person that wasn't sure about rape gave me an interesting idea for a question. If Person A is drugged (unknowingly) with something (not alcohol) so aren't aware of what they are doing, then proceed to have sex with an unwilling Person B, is it considered rape? I understand that normally we say that if Person B is unwilling, the Person A raped them, but since Person A got drugged, I'm not sure how the situation would be judged.

Wow, I made that explanation a lot more confusing than is had to be.

#6348 Hardest decision this week so far has been whether to buy a new 3 Tb Toshiba hdd for $99 or a used 3 Tb Western Digital Enterprise drive for $145.

It's funny cause it only took me 3-4 minutes to decide to buy an open box Asus GTX 780 from newegg for $375. Going to resell it later anyways. Aint nobody got time for that graphics card depreciation.

Keeping it UMD related, I went to ERC today to do squats. Some obvious phaggot was wearing a tight superman T and doing curls in a squat rack. MFW haha usrs man? Then he proceeded to do standing barbell calf raises in the squat rack with people waiting. Where do people find these retarded work out ideas? Men's Health and Fitness?!

#6347 as a fat girl I feel like I just can't eat in front of people. if I have a burger or pasta people will think "oh look at that cow, no wonder she's so fat." but if I eat a salad people will be like "sweetie you didn't get that way eating salad." I spend several minutes wandering around the diner debating in my head which is worse...

#6346 Haven't showered all week

#6345 If you're going to workout and lift heavy weights, know how to do it with proper form! All you're doing is risking injury and cheating yourself of awesome gains! Don't round your back on deadlifts, don't bow your knees in on the leg press and squats, don't use momentum to row and curl, don't hunch over on lat pulls.... I wish CRS employees were allowed to critique form, and if they are then I wish more were knowledgeable enough to do it! I'm a girl; no guy is gonna listen to a chick in the weight room. And if I outlift a few of you to prove that I know what I'm talking about I'll just be a bitch instead of a helpful bystander. Have a friend take a video of a couple lifts and compare yourself to expert videos on youtube. The information is out there, PLEASE use it!

#6344 to #6313. It's like you wrote an entire paragraph about my ex boyfriend and I. I dated him for almost 3 years, the exact same thing happened, his parents do not like me based on my ethnicity and the so-called wealthiness. I did go through some time of depression, I always think less of myself compared to my ex and his wealthy family. I ended up things with him because I felt distant too and he did not support me or been there for me through my difficult times (he lives 3000 miles away so we barely met each other).

But after I ended things with him I realized that what I want is for him just to be there for me. Skype or call every other day, or show an effort to really save up some money and come to surprise her. Hug her and tell her that you love her and always be there for her, do this every day as much as you can do. I bet your girl want the same thing.

#6343 Is it weird when your bf keeps hinting or joking about a threesome? Does that mean he wants to cheat or is in to another girl?

#6342 Hi, #6288 here. Harry & Justin, thank you for your input and I think I understand where you're coming from, but I have actually heard people say they think they cannot ever be racist because they are not white. To me that means that person actually believes him/herself incapable of discriminatory thoughts and that this person thinks they have a right to such discrimination because whites were responsible for so much injustice and violence committed because of racism.

I don't think racism itself is simple. In fact I think it's become more complex partly because everyone wants to sound "politically correct" while holding clearly racist viewpoints.

All I was trying to say is that every person is capable of holding racist views and using them against people. We are influenced by our surroundings and what we have been taught--but ultimately it is our choice to accept those beliefs as our own.

The same person who claimed she could not ever be racist also seemed to imply that all white people are racist because of the fact that they belong to a system that still oppresses. But like you said, "All people who benefit from an oppressive system have an inherent ability, however big or small to take advantage of that system." Not all people choose to do so. I accept that I was born into a system that unfortunately was created by some of my asshole ancestors and that others in society might choose to offer me advantage over people of other races because of that. But I did not choose this. I do not accept this system's views as my own, and they are not automatically my own. And I would never accept any such advantage knowing that my race was a deciding factor.