#8421 @#8356 So I'm pretty much in your girlfriend's situation. Our situations are practically the same ... so it makes me wonder if you're my boyfriend but I'm 90% sure that you're not! I just want you to know how I feel about this! Hopefully the feelings are the same coming from her. There is no doubt in her heart that you care for her and that you love her. You're amazing for still sticking with her even though you know the circumstances and you're not selfish and the perfect man she can't live without. She is sincerely sorry for what she's putting you through and hope you still think she's worth it when she's done with everything. I know for a fact that after she told her parents she was done with you she was in pain! To know that she can't share the man of her dreams with her family. Let me tell you why she told her parents she was done with you ... so she can be completely independent after she graduates which her parents are funding for. This will help her stand up to her parents, that I don't question she loves dearly for and tell them what she wants and not worry about anything getting taken away from her. She must believe she has a future with you because she would have left you easily already . I know it's hard and messed up for you to wait, but patience is key here. And it's up to you to decide if you have the time or not which is very cruel to you and I'm sorry! But she's made up her mind that she has the time for you so if this relationship had to end it would be on your call. And she will be devastated and heartbroken if you decide you can't handle this anymore but she won't be angry at you. Overall, I just want you to know that she cares about you and is very sorry for what she has to do and hopes that you still want to be with her. Because when the time comes she's literally risking it all to be with you and won't even second guess it.

#8420 I dont use condoms when i have sex cuz i shoot blanks. ps, im black.

#8419 I think it's disgusting how a teacher or police officer in our country only gets paid $28000-35000 while a NBA player makes $3-5 million. And people wonder why our country is so damn f'd up smh for real

#8418 why is it so hard to find a girl to like Spongebob, like watching TV and/or movies, likes meat and knows a little more than I do about cooking, likes to workout, and have a high sex drive. Or a girl that wont be a cheating bitch and accept me for me with some of those qualities will be even better. Please find me one day.

#8417 I confess I really dont care at all about your grades, gpa, how bad you failed a class and need this job or that job. Can we just stop with the repetitive I'm a _____ major and I have 2.__ gpa, woe is me i'll never amount to anything pity party? I'm sorry but it's been posted like 10000 times now, all of the advice is the same, you're not going to get any new revelation here.

#8416 My boyfriend and I broke up a year ago, and we haven't spoken since. It was a pretty bad breakup. I just decided to clean out my closet. I have a bunch of old tees and sweatshirts. It's not much of a confessions, but I need advice. I'm on campus all summer, but I was wondering if I should mail it all back. You know, a kill him with kindness, type deal. Or just give it all away.

#8415 One of the last weekends on campus, my boyfriend and I had sex in the bathroom in the basement of my dorm. It was the most risky thing I've ever done and it was fun, but my neck hurt for a few days because I was leaning on one of those mini counter things attached to the mirror.

#8414 A girl I used to be friends with is 19 (the same as me) and she had a baby about a month ago. I feel bad because I refuse to like any pictures of the baby on Facebook. It's not that I look down on teen parents in general, it's that she dropped all of her friends for her boyfriend who was an asshole and left her alone with the baby. It was their irresponsible decisions that caused her to get pregnant and I just feel like I don't want to be supportive of that. I just wanted to get it out and tell someone about this because I feel bad about it.