#11424 There are many misconceptions about this "friend zone". One is that it's a morally and sexually depriving sone of no-contact that makes you question why she even bothers to talk to you in the first place. Even if you're there, you still have the chance of making your friend zone a more habitable place. Start from well-timed friendly hugs. Eventually you will be able to walk with her with your arm around her. Then.. you can PLAYFULLY.. you MUST be smoothe and playful. NEVER make any advance unless your GUT APPROVES 100% of this... Then before you know it both of you will engage in mild sexual contact. Even grinding at a dance or a club will open as a possibility for you. I have done this myself. Much better than being a creeper that tries to get an unwilling girl to date.
Really, as long as she's having a good time anything goes.

#11423 I really wish one of these cute Purdue Soccer girls will invite me to play a friendly soccer game with them and possibly come to a house party if I arranged one at my place :)

#11422 The girl at the front desk of the T-Rec Sunday night. She's preeeettttyyy

#11421 Saying goodbye is harder than anything else I've done in life. Hard enough that I can't do it. I would rather walk away than say it. That's exactly what I did, and I want so much to apologize, but I won't have the chance to.

#11420 My confession? I'm sick of the contention between theists and atheists. For the record, I believe in God, but I'm pretty upset with both sides. What I am about to say does not apply to all theists or atheists; I want to avoid making generalizations.

Theists (but really I mean Christians):

Just because you recognize a particular behavior as being wrong does not mean you have any sort of divine right to treat an "offender" with cruelty. There is a way to withhold your support from a lifestyle and still show the person who practices it love and respect. Many you, with your self-righteous treatment of the gay community, for example, are frighteningly similar to the zealous Pharisees and Sadducees, whom Christ condemned. We were commissioned to be light-bearers in a dark world, but your holier-than-thou attitude toward the wayward and the outcasts of our society only leaves people burned. Furthermore, just because atheists don't believe in God doesn't mean they lack conviction or a sense of right and wrong. Some of the kindest people I've known have been atheists, and some of the cruelest have been theists.

Atheists:

Not only theists can be bigots; I was the victim of anti-theistic prejudices throughout high school, and endured both verbal and physical abuse for my faith. Stop holding the assumption that the religious and people of faith are delusional, dim-witted, or closed-minded. Some of the most profound people in history were theists! Not all Christians are anti-gay, anti-women, anti-Islam, and anti-evolution. Not all Christians are bent on interpreting the Bible absolutely literally. Stop judging the whole of a group of people by its worst examples. Sure, religion has caused a lot of problems, but it has also been the driving force of some of the most positive changes in history.

Pride and arrogance will continue to divide us. If we practice empathy and seek to understand and respect each other, we can begin to tear down the walls that have severed us. Let's examine personal prejudices and throw those away. Please, for the sake of our communities, our children, and the world, let's think about how we treat other people.

#11419 Whoever is running and jumping in the Morris Rentals 419 Vine St building right now, I hope you die a terrible death.
Sincerely,
Person who does not enjoy the feeling that the roof might break

#11418 I hate my roommate. She's a manipulative, alcoholic, bullying, dirty, spoiled brat. I'm so tired of her annoying habits, gossip, and drama. She's a devious, lying little bitch who throws tantrums when she's not the center of attention. She acts like an authority on all subjects and makes up words all the time to try to sound smart but ends up sounding like a fucking dumbass. She pokes her nose in where it doesn't belong and thinks that her advice is paramount when she has no fucking clue. She needs to check her white privilege and quit acting like she's so hood or telling people she's a member of another ethnicity just for the attention because one day someone is going to beat her ass for her culture appropriation. My confession: I'm so excited the semester is ending.

#11417

As an international student here,I feel like you can easily makes friends or have a boy/girl friend or not do not have that much relationship with your race. As an asian girI,I
think the main case is whther you can speak decent English or not. Because you need to communicate with others and your friends or boy/girl friend need to understand you. I'm not sure what most asian guys would feel if they have
a crush on a white girl. But I've seen so many cases that asian guy with white girl friend and asian girl with white boy friend,and in those relationships the asian girls and guys can speak very decent English. And your personality also matters. I just don't wanna see the troll posts about asian guys and white girls which makes me so sad. Also,I really hope people can understand the differences in culture. And Asia still includes Japan,China,Malaysia,Korea etc. “Asian” cannot be a stereotype for everyone who comes from
an asian country.