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Wednesday, 01 November 2017 03:32 AM
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The UA Title IX training was disgustingly weak. Here in Anchorage, we have a serious problem with sexual assault, and women are less safe than they ought to be when outside of their homes here. This training had an opportunity to encourage young students to begin encouraging men to be respectful towards women, and assert the moral high ground when prosecuting sexual misconduct of other individuals. Instead, we got a morally weak training that failed to teach basic self-defense against the most common types of sexual misconduct, and took no clear stance on how to deal with sexual predators.

Here's my two cents (and some change; this will be long):

===1. Don't incapacitate yourself!===

Don't get drunk. Don't do drugs. I understand that partying and getting a buzz is fun for most people, but this also renders even the toughest people vulnerable to sexual predators. If you're not certain that you're safe, avoid drinking large quantities of alcohol. If you do drugs, quit now. In any group environment where you are using recreational drugs, I guarantee you that someone there, while high or sober, may consider taking advantage of you. Drug use is already an illegal act, so you are more likely to bump into people who may not object to sexual crime.

===2. Watch your language (MEN ESPECIALLY)===
We Men generally tend to be the ones taking initiative when it comes to wooing women. This is our nature, and it's pretty normal. However, I have noticed among Alaskan men, that what we may perceive to be flirting, may make women fearful for their safety. Personally, I have a much lower threshold for comments towards women that are untoward or dangerous. Men here behave absolutely barbarically to women they don't know. Here's a pro-tip, and a major time-saver: If you don't know a woman and you find her genuinely attractive, be polite when talking to her. Compliments are fine, but don't come on too strong, and don't say anything that could be remotely construed as sexual or objectifying. These kinds of comments make good women quake in their boots regardless as to whether you're Ryan Gosling or another homeless dude on the street.

The reason why politeness will save you time is simple; if the woman's response is to be rude back, she is not worth getting into a relationship with.

As for men who behave with sexual aggression, they should be reviled and shamed for their degenerate behavior, made aware that their behavior terrorizes women in the city, and makes the sexual assault problem in Anchorage harder to deal with.

Similarly, women should mind their language and conduct around men, because regardless of whether you're in animalistic heat (unbecoming of a person, mind you) or not, contrary to belief, most men are not sex fiends. It does not matter if you look like the goddess Aphrodite, a vast majority of men at any given moment do not want to copulate with you.

In my mind, you are immediately devalued as a human being the second you sexually debase yourself with vulgar language or behavior. Don't like that? Stop being a hedonist.

===3. Vigorously prosecute predators===

This is my final point, and perhaps my strongest conviction:
We are too afraid of imposing morals on each other, because we think it is wrong. I propose a philosophy contrary to this idea. If your set of morals dictates that it is tolerable for you to sexually harass, or sexually assault vulnerable people, I believe that I have the right to impose my morals upon you. Evil exists in this world, and we must vigorously oppose this evil. People who lack morals should have good morals imposed upon them. To protect the weaker people in the city of Anchorage, we should not tolerate behaviors that encourage sexual harassment and assault.

What is sexual harassment, really? Not the work / school safe definition, either:
Vulgar statements or actions, directed at an individual for the purpose of attempting to encourage of a sexual relationship, or sexual activity; whether intentional or unintentional. Statements / actions do not have to be overtly vulgar.

What is sexual assault? Much more simple:
The sexual abuse of one individual over another, resulting from physical contact, including groping, rape, coercion, forcing someone to undress, and the abuse of other sexual activities.

People who are found guilty of sex crimes should be publicly whipped by authorities, and jailed the minimum of a decade. As a society, we should reform perverts, and ostracize those who refuse reformation. Being sexually aroused at the pain of other people is a sick behavior. We must defeat evil, and instead of being moral cowards, we as a city, and as a state, must assert with confidence that sexual crimes are not tolerated by a peaceful, civilized society. Nobody should have to live in Anchorage, fearful of being kidnapped for being a woman.
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Wednesday, 30 August 2017 02:29 PM
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I'm often insecure about myself, and I try to mask that with fake confidence which cracks in front of the person I've fallen for.
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Sunday, 13 August 2017 03:55 AM
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I'm looking for a girl to be in a serious relationship with, but I think that my desire for a serious relationship lost me a chance with an incredibly beautiful girl I used to hang out with between my classes. I guess it wasn't meant to be, but it still bugs me that she just stopped talking to me one day. I need to suck it up and get over that part.
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Saturday, 06 May 2017 02:48 AM
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[Message from the admin]
It appears that I can't remove the message below me on my own. (Worth noting is that I actually didn't approve it either, I don't know how it got there)
To reiterate my message on Facebook earlier, the anonymous user who posted the comment below does not express opinions that represent the mission of the UAA Confessions page at all. We are here for you to share your fears, ask for encouragement, and seek help with your problems. We are here to lift people up, not to tear each other down.

Have a good summer.
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Thursday, 13 April 2017 05:29 AM
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i Failed my job, i failed school, i failed in life, my friends left me, this girl i like is a fucking whore and thinks i am psychotic because i was on medication for depression. Now I got a broken leg , still recovering and might be on permanent disability.

But all i have to say is, FUCK THE WORLD! I AM STILL ALIVE! I WILL GO BACK TO SCHOOL! AND I HOPE THE GIRL I LIKE GET RAPED BY NIGGERS!

Life is awesome.
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Saturday, 25 March 2017 05:43 AM
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I got really obsessed with a girl I liked in High School on through college, now that I'm finally trying to get away from that obsession, the feeling is surreal looking back at how I behaved. What the hell is wrong with me that I need professional help over an old crush from High School???
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Tuesday, 21 February 2017 09:39 AM
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I'm leaving UAA, my words have hurt because my tone is sharp. I'm not a good people person when people are always mad, and this election has made it hard for me to function in the world.

I'm sorry to anyone and everyone I disrespected
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Monday, 20 February 2017 04:16 AM
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I would just like to say:

to the soldier who taught me what it means to slow down because you're getting too worked up over something,
to the soldier who covered me in a blanket when I felt scared,
to the solider who appreciate my bluntness and made me feel like I was enough and that I could do anything by his side,
to the soldier who might be hearing me speak about my own stupid personal daddy issues all over campus
to the solider who helped me realized I wasn't well enough to be in a relationship I know I want with him

I wanted to say I'm sorry about our misunderstanding and lack of communication. I'm sorry I misread your boughts of silence as a reflection of our relationship and not because you needed personal time to be you and because school was starting and maybe you were feeling stressed. I didn't consider your emtoions when trying to decide whether or not mine were considered. That's awful and wrong and I'm so sorry.

You deserve happiness and kindness for everything you do in your personal life and you damn well deserve better treatment from your nations citizens. I'm so sorry I participated in abusive behaviors after claiming I don't try to hurt people. I fucked up, I need a supervisor #archerjokes
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