So I would just like to get some clarity on what white privilege is. Currently from what I am getting is white people are not getting more than they should, they are getting what should be the standard. In other words in general they grew up in a good household, were able to get a good education, etc. and this has been true for many generations so it has been a pretty solidified system. As for other races until recently they were forced into poverty, poor education, etc.. Since this is only about 3 generations old at most the other races are still at a disadvantage. This meaning since the 1st generation was in poverty, with low education, etc. The second generation overall was below the standard because they couldn't get as much help from the previous generation but were better than the 1st. So the third generation was then being helped by the second who was still below the standard meaning they were generally also below the standard. However, this is just a generality because as we know there are people who did skyrocket near the standard and thus their children were about standard level. There are also plenty of white people who follow the same path of recovering however, their path was not set in motion due to racism in the past. So this whole white privilege is basically just about growing up in a certain quality of household created by a series of what quality of household influenced the previous generation. Now please tell me if this is correct because I am trying to wrap my head around this concept. If I am correct then does the assumption it does not apply to the individual at all work? For example a black person who grew up in a good household is at the exact same level as the white privilege standard therefore they cannot say that they had it tougher for being black. In the same way a white person cannot say they have it easier if their household was below that standard. However, the circumstances leading to that were completely different. Also if my explanation on white privilege is correct does that not also mean that anyone who comes into the country now are unaffected? And final question, If my thoughts on white privilege are correct wouldn't it be more appropriate to call it the household effect, or really something that shows more that it is a household effect or something instead of such a sweeping generalization? If I am wrong please do say so and give a CLEAR and DETAILED explanation. I am sick of trying to connect the dots since so many people seem to know what it is but nobody can thoroughly explain it. Also if I am wrong you don't need to answer the later questions in the post. Please help me figure this out

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To the douche that broke my mirror off on homecoming weekend... I got a new mirror. What now bitch!!

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i'm sorry, but I just can't anymore. I see who you are now, how you've changed. You'd rather be treated as a piece of meat or a booty call than actually be cherished by me or someone in general. Im not perfect by any means necessary, but at least my morals stayed the same. This time I'm gonna say goodbye. I spent too much time fixated on us or that maybe you'd see someday that you made a mistake giving up. Seeing who you are now, I need to just forget you. I'm sorry, but it's not like you'll miss me. Good bye. I'll always feel something for you, but I can't stand around waiting anymore.