I'm a guy and I always find myself being the one to text a girl first. We don't text much all the time but when they are being sent it seems like there's a lot of effort going into my texts and once in awhile she will do the same. When we hang out it seems fine that she's into me however I'm always the one that makes the first move. Any suggestions on what's going on? I don't want to seem like I'm chasing her and being annoying and I really do like the girl but everytime this happens I always get the short end of the stick and things don't last long cause they like someone else more.

I've been here almost a year and haven't met anyone! I'm a total sweetheart and super laid back...so why is it so hard for me?

Sitting in the library at Orientation, deciding which freshmen I want to bang.

I was an international student at UWEC and I miss the Midwestern friendliness!! Europeans are way too impolite!!

I met this guy in ninth grade through mutual friends. We became best friends. And even though I cared so deeply for him, I treated him horribly. He said some more horrible stuff to me. And our friendship ended a while ago. I'm selfish, and now that I'm hurting myself again, I wish he was back in my life. He was the only one who could really help me. Even if he hates me now, and doesn't miss me, I just wanted to tell him I miss him. His name is kyle. And I know he reads this page. I'm not asking for anything from you, or hoping you'll come to my rescue. I just want you to know that I love you, I miss you, and it hasn't been the same without you.

It saddens me to find out a cute girl is single. I usually feel impulsive like I need to take her out on a date.

I've started hating people in advance, it saves time.

I don't know what to do...I can't stop thinking about this girl! I can't sleep because of her always on my mind. And I know what you're thinking "sack up and talk to her" but that's not the problem I talk to her all the time, we have great conversations, and I've asked her out several times only to get rejected... and to be clear it doesn't feel like a simple rejection, it feels more like a Dikembe Mutombo "not in my house" finger waving rejection! She has this hold on me and I feel like the only way to her off my mind is to play catch the toaster in the bathtub! Just kidding I'm not suicidal...no offense to those that are I just don't roll that way! I think i just have to try harder to let her go; or on second thought if there are any ladies that would like to help me make her jealous that would surely be appreciated. I mean it always works in the movies am I right? But anyway thanks for listening... you've all been a great audience!