I met a woman I really liked at a concert. Unfortunately, she was married. Then she informed me that she was in an open marriage and that got my hopes up, but she said she only saw other women in order to preserve her husband's ego or some shit. But then she divorced his ass (thus further notching a point on my "'opposites attact' is bullshit" scorecard. And I'm thinking, "this is it, I'm finally going to get my chance with this woman I really like." Oh hey, she's moving to North Dakota in a month? That's just fantastic. If you're keeping score at home, I don't interfere with people's marriages and I don't do short, pointless flings.

But then out of the blue, she says she's no longer moving to North Dakota! This is it, the moment I've been waiting for! ...wait, you said you're seeing (read: hooking up with, not actually dating) the guitarist for the band I'm interviewing on Saturday?

A: How the fuck am I supposed to objectively interview this band?
B: Fool me up to four times, shame on you. Fool me five or more times, shame on me.

I'm very confused by my ex boyfriend's actions. All he does is stare at me when he sees me and finds petty, inadequate reasons to text me late at night. I think he misses me but is too stubborn to admit it. Can I get some male insight?

Confession and question: I politely turned down an extremely attractive girl that I work with because I'm in already in a relationship. I explained to that I would have gone out with her but I have a girlfriend. Well, now she hates to the point she won't even look at me which makes it even more awkward. Why do some people who get rejected hate the person that rejects them? Help me out here.

I really do love my cat as if I would a family member. I talk to her and tell her I love her all the time. I know it sounds weird but it makes me sad when people just look at their pets as just things living in their house and ignore them.

If there weren't so many perks to dating my gf I would leave her and her crazy family in a heartbeat. I hate it.

How long do guys normally last? I'm with a guy right now who usually lasts 2-5 minutes of us actually having sex. Is that normal?

The more i think about it the more I realize I'm attracted to curvy and a little bit bigger woman ;)

I'm a 19 year old girl living here over the summer and as hard as I try, I just can't seem to find places to make new friends here. I can't get into bars, and I'm pretty timid. Just not sure where to look.