#3886 I was in a 3 year relationship and was in a 2 1/2 year one before that. I've been single for about 6 months, and it really has been eye opening. It seems like everyone says you have to be in a relationship to be happy, like you aren't "complete" unless you have a significant other. Ladies and gents, you are special and priceless on your own. I'm not knocking relationships at all; heck, I want one! I'm just saying that the right person will come along at the right time. Personally, I believe in God's timing and trust His plan. Don't settle for someone just to have a relationship and feel validated.

#3885 I was the girl that got molested that doesn't want to go to counseling. I have been molested other times and I used to handle it like it wasn't a big deal. Ever. This last time, however, was really bad. Then I found my boyfriend and, while I might have rushed into the relationship, it was keeping me occupied. He makes me feel like I am not just a toy for men to play with and the more I get to know him the more I like him. The more I feel like I can trust him and be safe. I know I have to go to counseling, and I will. But it is hard for me to take that step to get better and acknowledge that all these years have never been okay. I'm only going now because I was honestly planning on using that blade to kill myself not just cut.

#3884 This isn't a confession, more of a plea for help. I need help finding an apartment for 500 or less for one person or at most two. Anyone know of a place?

#3880 I have always found myself to be a rather dull person, so when I came to college I fabricated some stories about myself which I thought others would like. It worked. I have never been short a story to tell, and people seem to find me interesting. But there are two problems. I have told the same lies so many times that a part of me has started accepting them as fact.
The second and more pressing issue is that all the friendships I have built this way feel fake, and I have become completely incapable of connecting with anyone, because to do so would mean I would have to unravel everything I have threaded together, and I am scared of what will happen when I do. The end result is that, even though I am surrounded by people--I can laugh, sing, and be merry with them all--I feel completely alone.
I don't know what to do.

#3883 We have all seen the crazy ass stories that go on in these confessions. But ladies, I have seen some of you comment on here, and yall are cute. Would it be weird to send a friend request or msg yall, trying to get to know you over facebook? Sounds strange but I could be over exaggerating things? Let me know.

#3882 You like D & D, Audrey Hepburn, Fangoria, Harry Houdini, and croquet. You can't swim, you can't dance, and you don't know karate. Face it...you're never gonna make it...

....I don't wanna make it. I just wanna...

#3881 I've only been in college for less than a year, and I've already had more black men in me than the electric chair.

#3879 so im in class and im breathin then dis bitch next to me starts breathin 2... im like stop copying me bitch... smh unoriginal bitches