So I've started dating a guy who is extremely well-endowed. The sex is great but I'm always super torn up after. No matter how turned on I am, no matter how much lube we use, with or without condoms, no matter how slow or gentle, I always have cuts and tears and bleeding down there. His length is fine so I think his width is the problem. What can I do?

I've never had trouble getting guys, and I haven't been single for more than a month since I started dating. I feel like I put my best effort into relationships and try as hard as I can, but I'm always the one to get dumped. I have depression and anxiety, which makes me high maintenance and moody a lot. I understand why people leave me for that, and I don't hold it against them for wanting a simpler relationship. But what if there is no one who will ever love me? Why would someone want to be with me when they could find a girl who doesn't have problems like this? I feel like I'm giving up hope.

Not a confession whatsoever, but is anyone at UNT into producing dubstep? More specifically chillstep. I would like to find a co producer, and start playing live shows but I'm having a hard time finding the right person. If you are into that, comment and I will message you!

#4233 There's this freshman I know who's gotten seriously wrapped up in a pyramid scheme called Worldventures. Now I can't even talk to him - that's all he wants to think about. He even tried getting me wrapped up in it, knowing full well that I'm poor and don't have hundreds of dollars to pay for a "job" on his team.

As much as I hate who he's become, I can't help but feel sorry for him. Soon, that business is going to go bust, and he's going to run out of daddy's startup money. Who will he be then?

#4232 I'm not sure what to do anymore. I'm a guy, I'm 22, and I just feel so bad lately... just really down and out. Some nights, I just lay in bed and start crying. All my life, I've been a hard worker. I am nice to people. I am patient. I am friendly. Despite all this, I just feel like I'm not getting anywhere in my professional or social life. I look around, and people have friends, girlfriends and seem very likeable. When I am around people, they often tune me out, try to avoid me or look right through me. I try to be very social with people, but it never works. Since coming to college, I haven't made many friends and with the friends I do have, they never text or call me to hang out... I am always the one doing it. They don't even text me to ask how I am... I always have to do it. When it comes to women, it is the same thing. I can talk to women in class, get their numbers, talk to them in class and via text... but when I ask them on a simple date, they often tell me that they prefer if we went out with a group of people and not just us. Even in my professional life, I've been developing my own brand and products for 3 years. Whenever I talk to professionals in the industry, they keep telling me that my ideas are fantastic and that I have a bright future... but it never goes anywhere past that. I've applied for many internships, but I haven't gotten any either (I will be graduating in August). I look at all my friends around me from high school and they all have jobs now, lots of good friends, and girlfriends. Despite everything I do, I just can't get the same results as them. I usually go to bed at 3 every night because I am working on projects. And I try to talk to people in school (they obviously don't care about what I have to say), but it never works. I'm just not sure what to do anymore. I just feel like I've completely failed with my life.

#4231 To the brunette in Dr. Cox's History Class that always sits next to that red-headed chick, I have a serious thing for you. I usually never have crushes, if you will, but I just can't stop thinking about you. I can't approach you. I can't even say hi and it's not because of your friend, although she kinda scares me with the looks she gives people sometimes. I can't even sit close to you, which is why I plant myself across the room in that class. Can't believe I actually have a crush..

#4230 I've had a couple of one night stands and we both had fun. I think if it weren't for the double standard of women being sluts and men being badass for enjoying hooking up, still more people would be chill because their tension is released!

#4229 Girls, at a bar would you get upset if a guy randomly slapped your ass??