I'm a virgin and was wondering if I buy a vibrator and use it before I have sex ... Would it ruin sex cuz I heard that vibrators are better then sex itself and I don't want to ruin my expire nice

I feel like I do not fit here. I love the campus and everything but I just don't feel right.. Sometimes I just feel like going back to my home country, but I do not want to disappoint my parents. They have made a huge effort for me to be here. People say this is an amazing opportunity and I should take advantage of it. I do not want anyone to think I am a quitter. Because I am NOT! I know I have much more potential, but I think this is not the right place for me. I do not feel confident, I feel depressed, I cry almost every day. I am afraid that if I go back home, in the future I would regret it.. Since my first day in the US, I've told myself that everything's going to be better.. that I just need time to get used to my "new" life.. It's been 3 years, and I feel worst that the first day. I can't tell anyone because I always have to be the strong one. It's been killing me.. I do not know what to do with my life..

Every time I get one of those mass "Please give me extra graduation tickets for my sister's boyfriend's cousin's nephew, I'll give you my firstborn child" emails, I want to respond back with, "GROW UP, STOP BEGGING AND MAKE DO WITH THE NUMBER OF TICKETS YOU GET. STOP SPAMMING ME. THIS IS NOT CRAIGSLIST." ...but I just click delete instead.

This is for guys and girls... I am in need of some advise... I am a freshman and in a three year relationship. It has reached a point to where we only bicker, hardly talk, and we seem to be growing in different directions.. I really don't know what to do but I really don't want to end this. It has been apart of me for so long and I love him so much it hurts.. I just want it to all work out but I'm not sure if I am being stupid by staying and letting us bother "suffer". Any thoughts?

This is a question for guys.. When you tell your girlfriend that you need some time to think about the relationship is that another of saying that is over without being straight forward? Or what does that mean??? My boyfriend just asked for some time off and I am not sure why.. he finally told me that he did not feel the same way any more so I am confused if we are together or not... any advice?

I just saw my ex-boyfriend. A wound resurfaced and I am feeling so much anger again...

Since I have begun to accept all of me -including the bisexual part of myself- and worry less about pleasing others...I have felt so much more at peace. I have also been able to focus more on spending time with my Lord and Savior, Jesus, instead of constantly being at war with myself thinking He was against me (He has shown me otherwise). I have even been able to focus to clean up my apartment some and not stress on my homework. If you think it is a sin to be in the LGBTQ community...please take a step back and examine your heart and where it is at. We are all broken...but that's why we all have each other. Start loving your neighbors. And if you are at war with yourself...know that you are loved more than you could ever imagine.

I have been getting to know you for a short period of time and I feel like we could take it there. The dilemma is you are so closed off because of past experiences. If you allow me to I will show you the way a man should treat a woman. Take a leap of faith. I can assure you that things only gets better from here.