#6478 I confess...I'm totally out of it when it comes to the dating world. I've wanted to date, & enter into a relationship w/ someone since I got to SLU 3 years ago. Even so, that's yet to happen.Truthfully, at this point, I feel like I'm at a standstill & don't know how to navigate my way through the dating scene. Heck, I don't even know where the dating scene is! In the past, I've tried the technique where you approach the guy first a couple times (which I don't like b/c I would rather be approached by the guy...ya know, the old school way :-) ) & ended up worse off than before. B/c, after approaching the guy & letting him know that I had been seeing him around & wanted to get to know him better, he came at me like I was some easy chick who wanted just wanted a piece of his Oscar Mayer wiener, which I'm not. Like, literally, we would be having a nice little conversation about everyday things, like programs we're involved in, classes, etc., & he wants to bring up penis & vagina! :-( Like, sir, you don't even know me! Since I'm trying to get back into opening myself to meeting someone again after saying eff it for 6 months, I've recently tried to practice subtly expressing interest so that the guy knows I'm interested during a random interaction w/ a cute guy in the caf, but I just ended up looking awkward b/c, while I was trying to look cute in front of him, I ended up accidentally burning myself as I used the waffle iron. I tried to play it off at first, but the sting was so bad that I lost my train of thought, & all I could say was, "Do you think I should put butter on this?" smh And I know that it shouldn't matter that he was white, but that's another thing: I don't know how to tell if a white guy, or any guy other than someone of my own race for that matter, is interested in me or not b/c, in my experience, they don't seem to be as upfront and straightforward about it. The truth of the matter is, I can't tell if they're into me or are just being friendly. Ugh! Why can't things be plain and simple?
