#30974 Girls rape guys all the time but no one talks about it. Girls take advantage of guys who are blackout drunk but if a guy comes forward about it, he's ridiculed. Why the double standards?

#30973 Have you seen me gold? I need me crock of gold!

#30972 To the girls who think it's okay to choose only a certain kind of male body stature to date while complaining about males who don't want to date fat women or women without those hips, please identify yourselves so that decent guys have a heads-up about the trap they might fall into by dating you. Especially those of you justify that attitude because your gender was oppressed for many years. Because you all didn't exist a 200 years back so what did you lose? No. For you it's a fight without any reasonable cause and if you think that this kind of retribution-oriented approach helps any human at all, then you're insane. Feel free to die alone.

Sincerely,
The decent human population.

#30971 I see way too many people posting about loneliness and depression...I too was going through the same thing. Led me to self harm and got myself in a lot of shit...the one thing that helped me get over this was avoiding small talk. It may seem hard in today's world to actually talk but just try please, when people ask you how your day was try to sit and actually talk.. don't ask other people about how their classes are going instead ask people how they feel, if anything is bothering them..open up and just keep trying...I got rid of my depression or Atleast am trying, I may have contemplated suicide and hurt myself but on my good days I remember all the things there are in life to live for, so please don't give up and keep trying. Also do things for yourself, and just try to love yourself even on the days you can't...just keep trying

#30970 I’m so in love right now, and I would literally marry this person if they asked me at any time. But any time I bring up the future or even housing options or hypothetically living together, they shut down and don’t wanna talk about it. I feel like they don’t want to and while it hurts to think that, I don’t wanna go without them...

#30969 I feel extremely guilty due to my swxual kink. My ex girlfriend got me initially into BDSM with me being the dom. Well then she wanted to try roleplaying non-consent, all precautions were taken. That evening was one of the best ever for me and her and it led to that being a regular start point for us. We broke up when I found she was cheating on me though and due to the level of trust required by both parties for this kink it felt rhe the ultimate betrayal and its extremely difficult to start dating again because I have no idea what I am doing ir where to start.

The thing is, that kink just goes so completely against who I am as a person. I want to protect others, I always have so combining that with the Me Too movement brings it all into clashing with my kink.

Ive recently started to try to get back into dating but even so much as the mere thought of being intimate with a woman again, even just making out,gives me anxiety. Of course you have to be extremely close to start exploring each others kinks but I feel like im at war with myself. The absolute last thing I want is to accidentally or maliciously harm someone. I know its putting the cart before the horse and all especially since I cant get passed the first date but I still feel guilty...

#30968 Interesting and eye opening to read the comments on the meat eating post #30914. It brought out the various facets of some of the commenters. Some outstanding characteristics:
Ignorant- not knowing how the meat is processed, not knowing alternate sources of nutrition
Arrogant, selfish, thick skinned, inconsiderate
Sadistic- derive pleasure in watching some animal struggle and die
Empty headed- comparing plant harvesting with animal slaughter, comparing present day humans with tigers and wolves (inability to comprehend a topic- basically being dumb af)

You don't have to be this pathetic! Educate yourselves or get help.

#30965 On a related note, I found regularly lifting and running dramatically improved my immune system. Now if I could consistently get more sleep and eat healthier ...