#31197 I see this tall, handsome guy whenever I walk down third street. Whenever I do I give him a smile. As I pass him he always looks at me with a straight face. It bothers me that he doesn't show the slightest emotion.

I mean, he doesn't look mean. He just looks indifferent. But I would still appreciate a smile back from time to time.

Am I ugly or something? I'm in good shape and other guys say that I'm pretty.

Is it too much to ask for a little bit of common courtesy?

#31196 It brings me joy when I see a guy get paid alimony or win custody of the kids and get some fat child support money after a divorce. It’s so rare, I can only think of like 1 instance out of all the divorces I personally know of, but it’s nice to see a guy not get screwed every once in a while.

#31195 #31146 #31129 It's especially tough when there are a majority of guys tryina condescend/judge/compete while trying to do so. But yea well might as well just do it regardless.

#31194 I think I finally found peace with my crush dating some other guy, they seemed happy, and although ill always love her, and be there if she needs me, I moved on and asked this girl out an hr ago, to my surprise she said yes, it blows my mind (because she's like an 8,9, or 10, and I'm lucky to be a 6 on a good day) but I honestly can't wait to get to know her.

#31193 A year ago I got a divorce and it was really painful and I didn’t see it coming (it was husband choice) but I just got in contact with my ex and now he says he misses me and has changed and wish he never made the choices he did. I’ve forgiven him but I can’t forget the way he treated me when it happened and now I’m not sure if I can ever look at him the same way. Part of me wants to rekindle a friendship and see where it goes from there, but the other part of me is disgusted by him and perfectly happy as a single person. Is it possible to feel differently about him or am I always going to feel like this? Is it irresponsible for me to keep talking to him knowing he still loves me and I don’t right now? help.

#31185 I wait for girls to unmatch me on Tinder then I superlike them. This way I know that if they like back then that is for real. Now I can talk to them and they respond. I don't want to please random girls who would not respond.

#31192 This is probably infuriating to some, but here's another "I'm shit at life and the solution is obvious" post.

I've become ostracized from my friend group, and everyone else I know just talk to me whenever they need my help with something academic, or because they're like fucking politicians who just keep in touch just so you know what their names are. My life is me just literally moving around like a ghost, not interacting, not in the present state of mind, and pretending not to care about how lit everyone else's lives seem. I know there's one or two people here who probably do care about me, but I've never liked talking to other people about how I feel - I talk to myself, self-counseling, self-conversing. That probably cancels out the need for people, but the void I always feel whenever I see a group of people laughing together, or a couple even holding hands, both among old friends and random strangers - it hurts like a bitch.

Then I realized I had PC. This works because of the anonymity. I'm an Indian dude - and the trend is to ignore people who are "killjoys" and "get depressed every two seconds". But of course, even this has it's own issues. In a few hours of this being posted, there'll be comments by stupid fucks tagging people who could actually be going through something similar to what I am right now. If they seem depressed to you, you don't add fuel to the fire, you're supposed to fucking put it out.

It's probably funny to you that I'm posting this anonymously without having the guts to own up to this kind of post, something I will never have the courage to own up to. I don't care. This is for the ghosts that walk among you, ignored and cast aside for their issues.

#31191 There is something I don't get at all, so someone enlighten me, please.
The whole complaining about the double-standard that it's ok for men to sleep with a bunch of girls but if a girl does she's a slut.
I just don't get this? I don't know a single girl that actually likes finding out that a guy is a man-whore. Are there women that actually prefer their guy has fucked a bunch of girls to a guy who is picky and only sleeps with girls he loves and respects? I feel like the double-standard is a lie that doesn't exist? Maybe I just grew up in a different culture.. or is it that guys don't judge slutty people in general, and women do? I've never been with a guy who asked/cared about the amount of people I've had sex with, and I've only heard genuine slut-shaming words come out of a girl's mouth. I mean, I myself just referred to promiscuous men as man-whores, lol.
Also, there are always going to be people who don't agree with your sexual choices and they are allowed to have those opinions. No matter your gender, you can do whatever the fuck you want in the U.S., so I don't understand why people bitch about this all the time. If you want to bang 100 people, bang 100 people; just don't complain when some people start judging you about it.