#26076 I was depressed for 4 years as an undergrad because I was terribly lonely. As an international student I couldn't find companionship niether in people of my country neither with other American people. I'm stuck up with a 2.3 GPA. I could have been a 3.5 if I had been happier. I feel sad in life.

#26075 I hate when people state that if you go to class you'll do better in class. That's such a circular argument. The people who go to class are more likely to study more and be prepared for class. The people who don't go to class (most of the time) will slack off on reading. Those people who aren't going to class aren't going to pay attention and take notes either. I mean I don't go to class and I pull B's. Im happy with that shit. Leave me alone with your attendance bullshit. I'm paying you to teach not to babysit. Fuck off

#26074 Is there any radio station in Lafayette that plays rap music? A station that is comparable to the Indianapolis station like 96.3 and 98.3.

I know the mainstream stations in Lafayette are 96.5, 99.7, and 102.9 but none of them play rap music.

#26073 In response to #26072, I know exactly how you feel. You try so hard to make something work but all you end up with is heartbreak and waste of all the time and energy. My guy turned out to be everything that I thought he wasn't. But dont make the mistake of blaming yourself. No matter how strong, independent you are, you wont make him stay. As a matter of fact, you are the one who is too good to be with him. I really dont understand why oneday someone treats you like queen and next day its like absolutely nothing.

#26072 I’m sorry I wasn’t the girlfriend you expected me to be. You told me when we started dating that you believed the only reason we’d break up is if either of us cheated.
But none of us did. And it still didn’t work.
I took that statement for granted. You were upset and I was heartbroken. I put in too much and you put in too little. You said we could talk through our problems and we tried, but I was in denial and you were inflexible. From star crossed lovers we became alternate dimensions. We slept in the same bed but we dreamed of futures without each other. We talked to each other, but tiptoed to avoid the fights. We drank with each other but stopped the drunk passion.
We withdrew in our own ways. I withdrew from my friends and my academics, to make you happy. I saw the emptiness in your eyes and the guilt ate me alive. You withdrew from me, because you knew I was the reason you stopped smiling.
After the breakup, I scrolled through to delete our photos, and I realized how we hadn’t taken any photos in more than a month. What happened in that month? What changed? How did we start to live with each other without feeling anything?
Living without you is lonely. The bed is cold, the bathroom is always empty. My laundry is less and my door never opens anymore. But I’m happy. I don’t know if you care, but leaving me was good for me. In fact, I should have left you earlier. I just couldn’t imagine how leaving the man I loved could have anything good come out of it.
You said you weren’t mature enough for a relationship and to prioritize us over you, but prioritizing you ended up prioritizing us. You made the tough call, and I will always love you for that.
In fact, I will always love you. I’ll love you for all our memories, for all the smiles, but it’s only been a few weeks and I have already stopped hating you for the pain. I love you for leaving me, and I hope you are happier now because your smile is still gorgeous, even if I’m not the reason for it.
You’ll love again. I was your first, and I will always love my first, but I learnt to love you too. You’ll have a more independent girlfriend, a lot stronger than me, a lot smarter than me and probably less emotional than me. You deserve a woman who’ll inspire you rather than pull you down. You’ll love the dream woman you thought I was, but never could become.

#26071 I've been dating a girl for about 5 months now and its been great. We get along well we are best friends and we have a great intimate relationship. I think I'm ready to drop the L bomb but I dont know how she'll respond. But I know,that's how I feel

#26070 Can you volunteer for a Purdue Convocation event if you're not a Purdue student? I want to volunteer with my friend but she doesn't go to Purdue. I know I should have directly contacted PC or CVN, but I felt like that was a stupid question.

#26069 It's been a little over a year since my ex dumped me, I still miss her (a little too much), will meaningless sex actually help?