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Total Confessions: 22200
Confessions Per Day: 6.7
Approval Rate: 79.7%
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Saturday, 12 August 2017 09:30 PM
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#27603 I'm really poor but hate asking for money... what can I do? I work 40+ hours a week and still struggle to make ends meet to the point my boyfriend has to help me with bills and I feel awful. What can I do? Part of me thinks go fund me but idk
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Saturday, 12 August 2017 08:57 PM
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#27601 Are Uncle Ben and Aunt Jemima brother/sister, husband/wife, or total strangers? I'd appreciate some answers.
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Saturday, 12 August 2017 03:04 PM
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#27600 Replying to 27572, we can enforce bikers to sing while biking. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3zn5dQiOEw
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Saturday, 12 August 2017 11:26 AM
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#27599 any nice restaurants for loners in lafayette/ west lafayette?
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Saturday, 12 August 2017 11:02 AM
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#27598 I graduated last Saturday. How long do I have before Purdue removes my email account?
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Saturday, 12 August 2017 08:03 AM
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#27596 Pappy's doesn't have tots anymore? WTF. Those were my favorite thing on the menu...
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Saturday, 12 August 2017 05:37 AM
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#27597 I think I am going to have to give up on trying to get my father to understand me. By this I mean how that parent that always know exactly how you're thinking or can anticipate how something will affect or how to help without having to ask how they can help. He is only able to understand things from his point of view and only his. He is utterly incapable of putting himself into my shoes. He is just so relaxed because he has no major health issues, doesnt have a mortgage anymore (owns his house in total), he loves to have parties and never stresses about anything until its an issue.

I am the polar opposite in terms of personality. I plan for everything, by this I mean contingency plans, major events or major parts of my life changing. With recent occurrences in the political arena healthcare stuff I am majorly concerned because of how much it can affect me to the point that if I have to I am fully ready to move overseas to get the coverage I need. I show the CBO reports to my father but he insists how its going to help me where the direct clauses would screw me over and its not even hidden in the language, its just out there in the open. His response "Well we at least HAVE to repeal the ACA, then we can worry about how to replace it". I keep showing him direct releases from the government, the raw reports, not news articles but he still denies there is anything wrong.

I only visited him twice a month when he had time off from work when I was younger so him and I have never been really close. We appear to be close on the surface but on the stuff that matters, understanding each other and knowing what is critical in the persons life. I keep trying to bring him to understanding this stuff about me but he doesnt take it seriously. This is one of the biggest sources of stress and anxiety; the political stuff and the plans no longer stress me because hey, I have plans ready to go whenever I need to. I dont want to give up but I keep putting in the work but not being met with any real effort on his part and why should I be the one to put in all the work when he didnt even really raise me, it as my grandfather that did that.

Ive already reduced my effort big time and its already helping quite a bit. I hate saying this but I am happy to give up. Why should I put in all the effort to improve the familial relationship if they wont put in any real effort? I am really envious of those who have involved parents (in terms of developing the relationship into a more adult relationship and being equals) and parents are active participants in their lives.

I know there are those that will try to insult the situation because hey we are all adults here. I just wanted to have a better relationship with my parents, with my family and I cant put in any more effort, I have put in all the effort I can since early high school. I am done. They want to be close then it's time for them to put in the effort. At least I am feeling better now.
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Saturday, 12 August 2017 01:18 AM
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#27595 Raise your hand if you're an idiot sandwich.
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Total Confessions: 22200
Confessions Per Day: 6.7
Approval Rate: 79.7%
Favorited by: 71

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