#28599 I feel like I am always competing for my girlfriend's love and attention. She checks out/ogles at other men all the time; when she is with me, even on a date! I am not unattractive but that's how it makes me feel.

#28598 CW: Sexual misconduct.

I am finding it more and more difficult to focus and function in the wake of so many sexual assault and rape allegations being presented on a daily basis. Don't misunderstand, I love that so many people are coming forward with their histories and are combating a system of victim shaming and suppression. I struggle with the love and hate I feel in that I'm not alone.

However, more and more I'm realizing the extent of my own experiences, and it's becoming too much. No, I'm not talking about matters I've laughed off (though these experiences are 100% valid, and I've had my share); I'm referring to things I've apparently blocked out that are resurfacing. Things would very quickly have people arrested, if it weren't for statute of limitation issues. I need help, but I can't talk to people. Not personally. I've tried four times to different agencies reaching out for help but I keep pulling back. I don't know what to do but it's tormenting me, thinking about how subconsciously this has so deeply affected my relationships with everyone in my life.

#28594 I wish I was in a relationship, so I've decided that I want to try out online dating. Do you all recommend Bumble or Tinder? What are the differences between the two? Are they just for hookups? Also do you have any tips?

If it helps, I'm female

#28597 why is everyone wearing the old masters tshirt on campus? i feel so left out

#28596 seriously what does it take to get a job on purdue campus? i applied for so many but got rejected all. am i hopeless?

#28592 im already in my junior year but i feel like pursuing a second major and a concentration. am i too late?

#28593 Yeah, I mean, hookups are great and all. Do whatever (or whoever) you want. So for me, recently I got with this guy and it was pretty decent. Then he left, and I just remember watching him close the door behind him, being hit with this immense wave of dread. Like what am I doing? Does he - or sometimes, anyone - even care about me as a person? All these toxic thoughts, man.
I think that hookups temporarily fulfill a human need for intimacy, but once it's over I at least feel so much more empty. There's so much hype around hookups I feel like it's just me, like there's something wrong with me or something. Sorry about the essay

#28595 I wish I was better at being more forward. I'm interested in a guy right now (met on tinder, I know, bad idea), and we've been talking for a couple of weeks, but I'm not sure where things are heading (which, I'm okay with being friends and letting things flow). I don't want to seem like I'm pushy or trying to rush something just because I want to ask about his intentions. It doesn't help that we have mutual friends and live in general proximity to each other. I hate that my anxiety is keeping me from asking.