#31458 I am 26 years old Asian, trying to get laid. I tried most of dating or hooking up websites or apps out there. Nothing seems to work. Just waste of money and time. I cant masturbate to porn anymore. I don't have interest in doing so. I don't expect you to provide any suggestions either. Just fed up with this. I think i should adopt celibacy.

#31457 As student counselors we're supposed to help you as much as possible. What do you do when you've got a patient who's clearly trash but still tries to seek help here? They've gone on two schizophrenic rambles, behave in a willfully ignorant, and have hinted that they've had a creepy encounter as a young teen with their child-age sibling, etc. They ask for help, but how the fuck do you help someone like this? lol. But we're advised to not refuse helping patients.

#31456 This dead campus is making me depressed.

#31455 I have a dilemma. I recently got into a relationship with my female friend late last semester before the semester ended. I don't think I was that attracted to her that much when I decided to be in the relationship its just that I'm a senior and never been in one before so I thought why not give it a try. Her personality is good she's very caring, thoughtful, loyal. But the problem is that I don't find her that physically attractive. And she dresses so conservatively and is afraid to wear feminine clothes that shows off her body.

We're doing a LDR over the summer since we're working in different cities. I go to my local Y after work to workout and I always see this really attractive girl everyday. She has a really nice body and works out the same time as I do. I kinda want to talk to her and get to know her but I have a girlfriend. I don't know what I should do.

#31454 Is it weird to take a shower with somebody else if you're both okay with it. I think it was but my sister disagrees. She thought it was fun.

#31453 Regardless of your past

Regardless of those you hurt

Regardless of the mistakes you made

You are worthy of love.

Never forget that.

#31452 @31443, that's fucked up. I'm sorry, but I don't think child molesters should be forgiven. That's just my 2 cents. Feel free to disagree. I feel there needs to be a conversation about this.

#31451 You're not perfect
Neither am I
I gotta keep asking is it worth it
But then I remember my heart can't cry