#12079 Can someone please explain how cactus night works? I'm finally 21 but I don't really understand the cactus cup system

#12078 I'm a female who fantasizes about hijacking the computers in the Wi-fi range of the Purdue campus that visit porn sites, and installing the computers with viruses that blare the words, "WOMEN AREN'T OBJECTS FOR YOUR BRUTE OBJECTIFICATION"

#12191 Dear readers, if i post here my real feelings you will comment "Dude, Move On!". But please help me understand the meaning of "move on" and how can I apply this damn thing which i was never prepared for. So many questions of mine are unanswered so i am using this platform to get your honest answers. Also help me understand if it is justifiable to find a partner ASAP and start a fuck ASAP to move on?

#12077 I have been severely depressed for about 2 years now(senior year of hs and freahmen yr at purdue). I lost all of my hs friends and only made 1 friend freshmen year. I really want a gf but no girls seem to like me all of them avoid eye contact with me when I walk by them. Even when I get 8+ hrs of sleep, I still feel extremely tired throughout the day because of my depression my mind is always cloudy and I can't seem to enjoy things that I used to enjoy. Idk what to do I dont want to see a doctor i dont want weird drugs in my body nor do i have the money to pay for a doctor. I see everybody on campus in groups laughing and having a good time and while most college kids want cars and the new iphone I just want joy, I want what other people have and that is the ability to be happy and friends. I feel like an outcast in this society and dont belong. I can't live like this much longer its too painful and miserable.

#12076 I don't know what to do. I really like my boyfriend, but I am not sexually attracted to him. He's fun and kind and generous, but I don't want to have sex with him...at all.

#12133 With or without you...

#12075 I fell in love with this girl I met at a party last semester. She's hardworking, attractive and ambitious. She's the first girl that I, a guy who has sex with random girls, have ever actually LOVED, but I knew I was too trashy to be with her and she deserved someone better.

I stopped sleeping with girls and started to study and work harder. I promised myself that I won't call/text her until I have become a new person, until I can proudly tell her "Can you be my girlfriend?"

#12070 I am a little late but Eid Mubarak everyone...may Allah bless you all :)