Tuesday, 09 January 2018 01:11 AM
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#29908 Past a certain age, if you’re a male who has never been in a relationship or had dating experience, you become somewhat undesirable to a decent amount of women. Who can blame them, who wants a guy that’s inexperienced, when they themselves are experienced. Also, to many it will raise red flags- “why hasn’t he been in a relationship?”. Unfortunately, this means the older you get as someone with no relationship or dating experience, the harder it will become to find a sustainable relationship. For many guys who’ve never dated, virginity goes hand in hand with it. The virginity part, while a dealbreaker to some, may not be a dealbreaker to everyone. After all, there are some people that want to save sex till marriage for many reasons, which is perfectly fine. However, the lack of relationship experience is hard to overcome, especially in your mid-late 20s. If you’re younger, but low in self confidence, scared of rejection, or anxious about it, or whatever, just do yourself a favor and try to put yourself in a position to date and potentially get in a relationship. Otherwise like I said, the longer you wait, the more difficult it becomes. I kind of got fucked by this self-induced cycle, and it really delayed things for a while in the dating/relationship aspect of life.
Monday, 08 January 2018 10:31 PM
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#29910 Opinion: is it weird to message a girl on GroupMe.
Backstory: she's in Orchestra and I was, but am not anymore. I think she's cute and want to ask her to coffee but I never was able to catch her leaving class. I remembered though that we were in a combined BGR GroupMe. Would it be weird to message her on there? I don't have her number and no other way to contact her. Or do I just let this one go?
Monday, 08 January 2018 07:10 PM
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#29931 I'm an asian guy but I'm really attracted to latinas. I'm even learning spanish so I can someday be fluent and talk to them in their native tongue. But the problem is that most latinas don't find asians attractive at all. What advice would you give me? Should I try to be involved in latino clubs around campus? I'm just scared that I would be the only non-latino person there and would be weird. Would a latina girl ever date an asian guy or should I just let go of my dreams?