#13422 Am I the only one who is in a relationship but has that little crush on someone else but know that nothing would evolve?

#13421 I met Abby Klinker and immediately fell in love. I really want to take you out on a date!

#13397 I think about suicide quite a lot. I find comfort in the idea of having the ultimate control over my own demise. I frequently romanticize the act in my head, playing out the plethora of possibilities I have access to. Where would I do it? How would I do it? Clean or messy? Fast or slow? Private or public? What would my note say, and who would I address in it? Would I blame others for my selfish act, or try to play it off as though "I just can't be saved"? Before everyone suggests that I rush to a psychiatrist, I am already under the care of a professional and have my depression well under control, but that doesn't mean I still don't have these thoughts. They are no longer seen as an option or accompanied by a feeling of hopelessness, but rather with an almost disturbing level of curiosity and comfort. Maybe I'm sick, maybe I'm not better yet, but why does everyone have to be in a perfect place mentally? As long as I know that acting upon these thoughts is not the right choice than isn't that enough? Sorry for the rant, just needed to get that off my chest.

#13396 I don't think you know what if feels like to get rejected every time that I ask a girl out on a date. That's right, I've never been on a date because every time I ask a girl out she says no or makes up a lame excuse of why she can't go. It really destroys me on the inside. I'm not asking for much I just want a chance. It's unfair how guys can get girlfriends so easily but yet I can't even get a girl to go on a date with me.

#13395 I'm really sorry that I wasn't good enough for you. I just want you to know that I really liked you and thought you were the most beautiful girl I have ever seen and would have done anything to make you happy. I felt that you never really gave me a fair chance. Unfortunately, you didn't want me and it wasn't meant to be. But I really hope that you find the right guy for you someday that can make you the happiest girl in the world because you deserve it. Maybe in another life, but I think it's goodbye for now...

#13394 I have a really bad problem with myself. I'm a sophomore at Purdue and have never faced any racial comments or been made fun of because I'm asian at my 1 1/2 years Purdue but for some reason I still feel inferior because I am asian. I don't know why but whenever I want to talk to people especially girls I always feel like no one will like me because of my race so I don't even bother trying and just isolate myself from the rest of society. I really don't know how to fix this issue I really want to make friends and get in a relationship but I just feel really insecure about myself and don't know what to do.

#13386 Alright Purdue, I need help. My girlfriend (whom I'm very much in love with) has had the same thing about her that I don't like and I don't feel comfortable talking about it with her because of the issue itself.

She has this nasty habit of adhering too double standards and it seems as if she wants me to adhere to them as well or else she gets upset and then I'm the bad guy. It can be really simple stuff or it can be complex issues, but what it really comes down too is that I can't expect the same things of her that she expects of me or else I'm the bad guy.

Can anyone give me some advice on this?

#13368 Maybe this year we will be able to skate to class before Thanksgiving Break.