#30212 I find that a lot of people are having issues with either being single or liking someone they can’t have. I hear all of you, and yes, it’s not something you can throw out of your life. But I can tell you right now that I experience it too. Every now and then before I go to sleep, there’s someone I think of that I can’t have, and Im the only guy on my bed. And do you know what I do? I DO THE THINGS I LIKE! I play table tennis, I read, I watch my favorite TV shows. Yes, it doesn’t get rid of the gap, but when you really enjoy doing more of those things, lack of intimacy becomes remarkably easy to live with. Please, do a lot of what you like, and doing that is a more positive energy than all the ranting on confession pages. For your own sake, adopt that habit. You’ll thank yourself. Get busy living, or get busy dying. Simple.

#30211 Last November I Tinder matched with a very handsome farm boy from Iowa. Based off his bio, I thought I finally found a good guy as we had sooo much in common. Unfortunately, he never responded to my messages. Well, last Thursday around noon I saw him for the first time in WALC. Sitting near him briefly, I got more sad...I saw in person what I was missing out on. In flesh he was a “make your knees weak” type of guy! I have a gut feeling he's not actually gay though, that he (or his friends) decided to be dumb and change his Tinder preferences to guys. A few straight guys have told me that they do it just for the hell of it. That's sad because they're essentially playing with the feelings of gay guys. Regardless of what you may be, I wish you all the best…maybe our paths will cross again?

#30193 I dont care about not being honest now. This has to done.

#30188 I’m 26 and pretty normal in most aspects of life except I haven’t been in a relationship or had sex. It makes me feel pretty abnormal and socially inept. I wonder if I have mild autism or aspergers. That might explain my inability to make it happen.

#30188 I’m 26 and pretty normal in most aspects of life except I haven’t been in a relationship or had sex. It makes me feel pretty abnormal and socially inept. I wonder if I have mild autism or aspergers. That might explain my inability to make it happen.

#30210 Quick Question...I’ve hooked up on campus and noticed that guys don’t like to eat p*ssy. What up with that? If I’m gonna go down on you why won’t you go down on me? It’s called reciprocity dude.

#30189 #30155, Keep on being you! As a guy who likes larger girls, I love reading about yoyr confidence.

#30196 #30168, I too love STEW. I have long since graduated, but I long for the day I may return to campus and be reunited with my one true love, the 4th floor!