#16269 To what extent is attraction within your control?
I hear that Chemistry is "natural". Then I hear from some of my friends and other people that one can be "good with girls" and can "get any girl to hook up or anything".
For me, I can only get love when there is natural chemistry there.

What do you guys think? Is love completely within one's own control and abilities or is it something that can only happen naturally?

#16268 I usually don't get along with girls at all. I have no friends that are girls. Whenever I do end up getting along with girls, I also end up at least kissing them and getting to grope them, once in a while I get sex. It's that I don't know how to get girls to like me; it only works when the chemistry is natural. I have no control.

And how often is that? Maybe 2-4 times a year.

#16267 Strange thing is that often times, after a woman rejects me I hear that something bad happens to her. Once a girl that rejected me got arrested that same night. Another one flunked a final. Another one missed her final... had to change her major as a result. Another one ended up hooking up at another party drunk and ended up on snapchat. Should I be happy?

Idk how to feel. My self-image makes me feel emotionally wounded and hurt because of the amount of rejections I get compared to the acceptances. So I guess this is some kind of strange compensation so that I won't feel so beat up.

#16266 What's the average pay for engineering internships?

#16265 What are your guys' favorite musical albums? I'm trying to find new stuff to listen to. Personaly, mine is The Wall by Pink Floyd.

#16264 I'm always scared that I've become bored of my boyfriend because it's happened in a past relationship. But then I remember how much I never want him to leave (I get emotional and cry) and I realize how much I love him. And it kinda scares me. Makes me happy...very happy, but scared.

#16263 Have a driving test coming up soon. I practice driving and I am fine now but still nervous. Did you guys pass from the 1st time? Was it hard?

#16262 Confession: I always though Joe on Blues Clues was better than Steve