#17663 I've been abstinent because I found Christianity and believe sex is sacred and should be performed between two married individuals. But It seems like I'm stupid for believing this now since no one wants to be in a relationship if they not having sex and idk if I should just have sex or continue to wait til im married. I don't even think im getting married. Since everyone is having sex its ok right? It's a sin but not a "you're going straight to hell " sin? Do I just repent after I do it? I'm so confused

#17664 I am extremely anal retentive about everything from homework assignments to tasks at work because people are not trustworthy and they'll fuck me over at the first chance they get. That is why I am always asking questions about every little detail.

#17665 I wish people wouldn't use terms/make jokes like "roast beef vagina","beef curtains", etc. Women can't control the look and length of their vulva and labia, not all women have the "industry standard" porn star vagina. I have longer labia and I get anxious any time I'm in a situation where sex is on the table; I can't stop feeling self-conscious about it, wondering if the guy will be repulsed by what I look like down there. I'm not saying that every person has to find long labia the sexiest thing in the world, I just wish that we didn't live in a society that so cruelly shames natural body parts (to the point where labiaplasty is a thing).

ps, if you want a metaphor, may I suggest "butterfly wings" as a cute, positive alternative.

#17655 Everyone says love hurts; but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Everyone get these things confused with love. But in reality, love is the only things in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again.

#17654 My gf broke up with me to experience college AKA wants to fuck random people

#17653 I was so high one time I thought I was in the cartoon Rugrats. Then I had a panic attack & called 911.

#17652 Life goes on and you won't die. You will be poor but sooner or later you will land the job you deserve. Stay strong. You made it this far, just keep doing the best you can.

#17651 I ordered water at a McDonald's but filled it up with soda. Do I feel bad? No.