#19780 I have a bf who is a nice guy but I still find other boys very attractive. I wish my bf was more attractive :(

#19779 There is nothing more attractive to me, than when a girl quotes Monty Python to me.

#19778 People (mostly family) ask if I have a girlfriend and no I do not. Not because I don't want someone to spend time with but because I haven't found someone who I care for as much as they care for me. Someone who has a drive to be the best they can be and succeed in life WITH me. I don't want to carry someone through life. I want someone where we can carry each other through life, travel and be successful together. So yes, I'm single for now but I'll find someone eventually.

#19777 "Slavery, a great tool it is for the rise of the Sith." - Yoda.

This means that the United States was a Sith Empire for much of its history. Damn..

Confession: I want to be Darth Plagueis that sexy fucker

#19776 This idea of rape culture as if rapists get to happily walk around raping without lying and hiding confuses me. This idea that we need to teach about consent also confuses me. We know what rape is and anybody that has raped did it on purpose. No rapist thought "I'm doing nothing wrong" as they beat and held a woman down to rape her. People steal so we lock doors. How come we don't handle rape in the same way? We're talking about offering shit like consent classes instead of teaching women to protect themselves (lock the door). You can't coach people into being good people, they make their own decisions. I'm seriously concerned the appropriate actions aren't being taken

#19775 I am currently a junior in Communication. I'm a fairly shy person, but I'm quite friendly if I'm with someone who seems to be interested in talking with me (i.e., I'm not the best at approaching people or starting conversations). I still do not have any friends in my major. I recognize people from different classes, but it seems like everyone already has their set groups of friends. I worked so hard as a freshman in engineering to create a network and make friends and connections. Now those people don't even talk to me, and I don't talk with them. I am in 2 student organizations, but one of them is quite large and the other only meets a few times a year. I don't know how to make friends that aren't just people that I talk to in class. Ideally, I would like to have someone in my major that I could talk to regularly about school things (or really anything). Any advice?

#19774 Ive been with my current boyfriend for about half a year. My feelings for him have intensified over the months and recently realized that I'm in love with him and not being able to express that has been killing me. One night after drinking I told him I loved him and even though things were blurry I think he said it back. However, I don't know how to bring that conversation up again. I'm not sure if I heard correctly since I was drunk. I don't think he has ever told anyone he has loved them or been in love. I'm terrified of telling him (sober) that I am in love with him because I'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way. What do I do?

#19773 I met a girl through my best friend that I am wildly attracted to. Attracted to her smile, the interests that we share, her jokes, her laugh, the freckles on the tip of her nose. Everything. Only to find out she's transferring away next semester. I find a girl that is perfect. And she's transferring. I'd hate to do long distance, I wish I could somehow make her stay.