#21544 Why do we put down unhealthy habits like smoking and drugs, but glorify being overweight? You want to love your body? Take care of it.

Confession: I personally don't give two shits about anyone's weight. I just find it hypocritical to glorify one healthy habit and put down others. Food is fucking delicious. If eating makes you happy and you don't mind being fat, good for you. But don't glorify fat, glorify food. Being over a certain weight is unhealthy (just like being underweight but thats's another topic). I'm tired of people spreading misinformation and getting upset when the doctor says they're fat. What, do you think you're skinny? It's not an insult, it's a fact. If you don't like it, maybe you should change. (This is different from others pointing out your weight cuz they should mind their own business, but it is a doctor's job to inform you of how to take care of yourself).

Confession 2: I have a lot of health factors that make me gain weight easily so I'm aware it's not always overeating and lack of exercise that makes one overweight. As mentioned earlier, I don't care if someone is overweight, whether by choice or not. I just find it gross how people are promoting obesity and denying health risks.

#21543 I completely fucked up an amazing relationship. I met a guy online, and we talked for about a week before we decided we should meet up so we could sleep together. At the time, I was just looking for one-night stand type of thing, but I ended up really liking the guy, and he liked me a lot back. We were able to talk about anything and everything so easily, and he was so understanding and non-judgmental, as well as passionate, caring, and supportive. We decided to date, but after two weeks I broke it off. I told him it was because I was too busy with school and work, and that I basically didn't have time for a boyfriend and that it wasn't fair to him. But the truth is that I just totally freaked out. I got caught up in my vanity and thought I could do better, since he didn't fit the mold of a toned, mature man. I think the main reason I ended it was because I was really starting to fall for this guy, and I don't know how to handle letting people get close to me. It feels as though I'm giving a person power and superiority over me if I let them see how much they mean to me. I can't stand being vulnerable, and so my natural instinct is to push them away as quickly as possible and sever all ties completely. This is exactly what I did to this guy. It's been around 3 months since I ended it, but I've thought about him so much in that time. I'm just now realizing that I fucked up big time. I messaged him asking if he'd be willing to meet up for coffee and talk, if he'd be willing to give me second chance, but I really doubt he'll answer. Honestly, I don't deserve a second chance. I treated him so unfairly and was downright rude to him. Ugh, I hope he ends up with someone that treats him much better than I did, and doesn't take him for granted.

#21542 I shower once a week

#21541 I'm still afraid of darkness

#21540 I've always wanted to try the whole "casual sex" thing, but I'm too insecure to even attempt to find a fuckboy.

#21539 For people who had Diversion plan, how do you prove you finished your volunteer works?

#21538 When i go to the beach, I like stepping on kids' sand castles! I love to see their faces when I do it. I'm not a nice person :) And since I'm a girl no one calls me out on it

#21537 I'm dating my best friend's ex-girlfriend. They were together for 3 years, and now I've been dating his ex for 5 months, and he doesn't know it. I feel really bad but at the same time I love my girlfriend. I just needed to say it, I feel better now.