#22043 Why on earth are manbuns a thing now? They look ridiculously bad...

#22042 I am not from America so maybe Americans can help me with this. I have been having a confusion about this country for a long time: Why do lawyers make significantly more money than engineers and scientists do? Law school grads who just came fresh out of school can easily get 160k without any experience (Payscale.com). In contrast engineers like mechanical engineers or chemical engineers barely make it to 80k on average (glassdoor.com). Engineers and scientists are the people who make a country advance but lawyers aren't. I know 80k is a decent salary but if you compare the work that engineering students do in school to that of law students, I feel like this is unfair. I read a news yesterday that Obama just put 6 billions dollars into school programs for training more software engineers. But I feel like that is not going to cure the American society problem of lacking engineers and scientists. With lawyers continue making huge amount of money, a lot more people would of course go for law school instead of the science field. I would like to hear the Americans' opinions on this phenomenon of this American society.

#22041 It's only been a month into the semester and I'm already wondering when I'll be going to sleep again

#22040 I've been friends with this girl for four years and she calls me her best friend. I've been the one who will take her out and she'll flirt with me and drunkenly kisses me and tells other people that I belong to her. She's told me over and over how much she loves me and thinks I'd be the perfect person to marry. I take care of her when someone breaks her heart. I have helped her in so many ways like paying her rent when she didn't have the money and driving her places because her car is crap.

I took a leap and asked her out for Valentine's since we're both single right now and she almost laughed in my face and told me that she could never date me. She now refuses to acknowledge that the conversation even took place.

I think I've been friend zoned and I feel so bad. She's literally just broken my heart and I don't have anyone to turn to like she comes to me when someone hurts her. What am I supposed to do now?

#22039 I'm a pretty romantic guy and i know that. I love making roses and leaving notes for people and look very much forward to Valentine's Day. This year i'm not looking forward to being alone, but I'm looking forward to the year and every year after that I can put all my heart into it for someone truly special to me. Now, while I do hate waiting, i just have to wait to find someone I can share this with. I just wish that day would come sooner.

Sincerely,
A guy looking for someone special

#22038 When should I change my flaws and when should I accept that my flaws make me who I am?

A question I asked myself today.

#22037 I feel like I met a girl who accepts me for who I really am but at the same time I can't trust anyone (her included) after what I experienced.

#22036 It has been three consecutive nights that my roommate tries to open my room door without knocking at night. I locked the door after the first night when she actually opened it at 2 am. It really freaks me out. I clearly told her that she should not do it when it happened for the first time. What should I do next?