To the guy that asked about pegging - no, it's not weird at all!!! The prostate has a lot of nerve endings! And by the way, as a woman, I've always thought it would be fun to peg a guy ;)

I am 6'2 athletic/muscular, blonde hair blue eyes, pretty good looking. I am very compassionate, caring, love to be with my girlfriend, treat her to dinner, take her out hiking, snowmobiling, fourwheeling,dirtbiking. I always get flowers and cards and stuffed animals or chocolate for important dates. I take my girlfriends on vacations, take them shopping and do everything I can to make them the happiest girl in the world. I always try to make them feel like they are the only girl in the world. Yet, I keep getting cheated on. I don't want much in a girl. Just someone fun, who can make me laugh and will let me cook dinner for them and open doors for them. Why do I keep getting hurt?

Everybody else is having threesomes, trying anal, swapping partners, having sexual thoughts about inanimate objects and then there's me. Watching the notebook on a Friday night waiting for the girl of my dreams to fall from the sky so I can treat her like a queen.

I need help. I have never been aroused by men, but I really like the idea of someone putting things in my butt. Like, recently I saw this video of a girl with a strapon and it was called pegging, and it is exactly what I am looking for. I also really want to have a girl lick down there, but I feel gross and disgusting for wanting that. Does this mean I have like homosexual tendencies? I know I'm not gay, because men don't excite me at all. If I were gay,it would make more sense. Why am I so f'd up!?

I am really conflicted, on one hand I truly believe that men and women are equal. On the other hand, I like to be in control of my relationship and I want to be the head of the house. I am struggling to find balance between my own control issues and my belief that women are every bit my equal. On top of it all, I think that I put women on a pedestal and yet make them less than equal to me by wanting to take care of them and protect them. Could someone please offer me some perspective?

Coming to Hamline was the best decision I ever made.

I have to constantly buy new socks, because between the laundry eating them and my masturbatory habits I never have any.

I accidentally had a high speed lane change with my girlfriend last night. Even though she said it hurt really bad, the pain made her have a really intense orgasm. Does this mean my girlfriend likes pain???