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The thing that professors don't seem to get is that sometimes you don't have a choice, if I want to have a roof over my head and be able to stay in my siblings lives then I have to do what my parents say. I haven't missed a day of class except for when my parents needed me and your giving me bullshit? fuck you and your happy home life, I didn't feel like disobeying and getting the painful consequences.
Hey there im looking for someone to play racquetball with on the weekends. Im not good but it's fun
I found a green and orange frisbee outside of Manor. Any douche bag missing their frisbee? If you did, let me know and I can toss it back to you in the quad.
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Those blonde girls with glasses are so sexy. IDK who they are but they need to drop me their digits.
I really like this guy and I thought he liked me back. We used to text all the time, but he has stopped replying to texts, yet snaps me daily. Not sure what to think, but I guess I won't text him or contact him, unless he makes the next move. I don't want to come across as clingy or anything, but if hes' not interested, he also needs to vocalize that because I'm awful at picking up cues.
Concerning the post about the person asking if they should "LABEL" themselves abused. I am a 23 year old white man who was molested from ages four to seven by a very close relative. Too many times at this school has my opinion been cast aside because I am a white man who some social justice fanatics on campus and on this site assume hasn't dealt with the struggles that the cards of life can deal, I am NOT saying that whatever transpired does not deserve respect, but if you need the opinion of people via Hamline confessions to figure out if you were abused then lord fucking help you. It's insulting.
I am a gay white man, and I do not openly share my sexuality with most people because it's none of your goddamn business. However, my viewpoint is often snuffed out by people at the university; people who think that because I am white and male that I have not gone through some heavy, heavy shit.
When I see these things on the confessions page, I get angry. It makes me angry to think that people contemplate whether or not things that happened to then four year prior constitute abuse. When I was being molested, it was under the premise of a "secret" that I could not tell anyone, otherwise I would lose the "game" because I told and I would therefore lose.. This happened when I was four years old, five years old, six years old, and seven years old.. Today, you are at least eighteen years old. If you are seeking advice on whether or not to label it as abuse, then you probably don't need a label to figure this out. Living with this shit is debilitating. You don't need a label when you have been raped/molested/assaulted because you KNOW that no label can truly account for what happened to you.
Gotta love how the internet shows people's true colors. They may act all sweet and understanding in person, but then you see how hate-filled and ignorant their internet activity is.