UNT Confessions
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Here's a novel idea: Are you 18+? Yes? Are you having safe, consensual sex? Yes? OK, so here's the deal: Once you're an adult, you reach a certain level where you do not need to advertise who, where, when, why, and how you're having sex. There's no such thing as a slut if you keep your yap shut. The moment you stop caring and focus on what you actually want (friends with benefits, a one night stand, making a lasting relationship) and stop worrying about what others think (and FFS stop TELLING EVERYONE) there's no such thing as a slut/man whore. Newsflash: The older you get, the higher your number gets, the higher your partner's number gets. It's stats. What're you going to do? "I've slept with 10 people...now I can NEVER have sex again or else I'm a WHORE!" then never get "it" again until you're married? Haaa that's realistic. Good luck! The brilliant part is..the older you are, the less you care about being a "slut" and the more you care about the intended purpose of having that safe, consensual, fun sex is. This ain't high school kids. No one is telling you that you HAVE to tell everyone your business, and hell you don't even HAVE to tell someone your number when someone asks. All you have to do is smile and say "I'm not telling!" "That's not polite!" "*lie*!" I am so sick of seeing young girls fretting over being whores, meanwhile slamhound guys who have said things on this page as stupid like "if you like the same music lets fuck" or "you like hockey lets fuck" don't even have an inkling of reality and are overeager to say "WHORE" if a girl even mentions boning. BTW, if you stop fretting about other's opinions, you get laid WAY more often. I know I do, and btw, this OP is a woman. Learn, chitlins.