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#5315 Say what you want about your president, but whoever is posting all of this is obviously a far worse person. Grown adults and decent members of a sorority have a real conversation when they have an issue with someone. They don't anonymously bully someone and ruin the reputation of their sisterhood over petty drama. Nobody at this school respects your hateful opinions and I hope your sisters figure out who you are so they know who to regret giving a bid to.
#5314 @5304 - I agree with what you're saying, but the problem is so much deeper than one member of the organization. It has been an ongoing struggle for years, before all of this recent drama. It continually gets brought up every few months it seems, and it continues to get pushed under the rug. LGBT students have transferred schools after experiencing the spectrum environment. Students are outed far more often than they should be by the gossip of members, particularly those in leadership positions. Several spectrum members are guilty of accusing students of not being gay enough because they don't hold the same point of view. It's absolutely not a safe space and it's not just one person's fault. But very few in the organization seem willing to own up to any of it. Many are eager to speak up as advocates of the LGBTQ+ struggles, except for when they are causing those struggles. I, and several other students, started attending EQUAL at UCF instead because we were so uncomfortable at Rollins. My personal discomfort was not caused by that particular activist you were referring to at all, but by a previous president and vice president. The whole organization needs to examine their mindsets and their behaviors and be willing to admit if they are a part of the problem.
#5313 @5301 while I agree with you on some level, did you stop to think about the "irreparable damage" she inflicted on other people? While I agree that venting online is not the best option, did you stop to think that she used her power, or asked other sisters who also had the power, to silence those who were simply trying to express their hurt feelings? If her feelings are hurt, so are mine and the other who have posted here. I bet how you're not aware of the things she has done to other sisters because they were alienated from the chapter and had their voices shut. Maybe if you did know, you would see this from a different angle. You want to know why she doesn't take this to heart, it's because she is the one lacking in humanity, she simply ignored sisters who were in clear pain and suffering and took away one of their only support systems, in some cases. Yes, this is all online now but it was going in before and people used to think and say those things anyway. If perhaps she attempted to talk to those she hurt, or even try to reflect on her actions and decisions and how it affected other sisters, the confessions would stop and she wouldn't have the need to ask her friends to defend her. Two wrongs don't make a right, but this is the only place we found to let outer feeling out and thus start healing, and maybe to have a chance to have our stories and perspectives heard. And one more thing, at least on my definition, it is not slandering if it is true. Bullying, maybe yes but slandering no. But then again a lot could be argued about her being the bully and not just simply the "victim". I hope you have a nice day.
#5312 You know, I'm not in AOPi and I don't know her personally, but I'm gaining so much respect for her right now. If you're trying to bring her down to your level, it's really not working. The only one you're making look bad is yourself.
#5311 I never thought I'd miss the 'I don't get checked for STDs' & 'I love sucking dick' confessions. Where did you go you nasty fucking hooligans? We need you now.
#5310 It's weird, but I want to be friends with the girl who stole my ex from me. In the end we were both screwed over by the same asshole, so we already have far more in common than I do with most of my friends, and I actually think that we would have gotten along really well if none of that had happened. I'm too scared to reach out to her, but I really wish we could talk about it.
#5309 I'm a stuck-up bitch, but I wanna change. Any suggestions?
#5308 I tried to join the rock climbing club last year because the captains were cute, but I stopped because of how annoying they both were